Timing Is Everything

Have you ever felt like you are attached to your oven with a ball and chain during a party? With that in mind, menu planning can be more important than you think. Below is an actual schedule that my friend Cindy had on her counter during her last dinner party. I asked her if I could keep it. I have very few friends who could pull this evening off, Cindy being one of them. She did it beautifully. This is easily doable if your menu is carefully planned from the start.

Cindy’s timing cheat sheet from her dinner party. Can you imagine keeping up with this and talking to your guests?

When hosting a dinner party, use all your cooking resources. Spread out the cooking—to the grill, stovetop, and oven or ovens. Make something ahead such as a salad. Have it ready to go in the serving bowl you plan to use in the refrigerator. You will be thanking yourself when the entire party is standing in the kitchen in your “cooking triangle”—which is now referred to as The Devil’s Triangle.

On one of those nights where the menu is complicated, I try to do a simple appetizer. One of my favorite Emergency Appetizers is as easy as putting out a bowl of pistachios. Not only will they hold your guests over until dinnertime, they are now entertaining themselves. How about that? I put out two attractive matching bowls and that’s it. Jon usually gives them a test run, like leaving a used toothpick in a bowl to show guests what to do.

Appetizer, check!
Be on the lookout for a pair of matching bowls.
Garden shops are a great source for serving pieces. These bowls are from Oak Street Garden Shop at oakstreetgardenshop.com.

The Star of the Show

This is the first time I can remember in a long time not being with my sister, Beth, on Thanksgiving. I’m going to miss her and our dressing bake-off.

First of all I have to say this is not an exact science—well, for me that is. It is kind of feel and taste as you go. But it has never seemed to disappoint anyone at the Thanksgiving table.

Mama Lil’s Thanksgiving Dressing

Makes 3 quarts

1 cup butter

1 ½ cups celery, finely chopped

¾ cup onion, finely chopped

2 (9-inch) pans of cornbread, crumbled (Leslie’s Tried-and-True Cornbread), see page 179, Leslie’s Party Diaries

3 to 4 biscuits, crumbled

1 to 2 tablespoons salt

1 tablespoon ground sage

1 teaspoon pepper

Poultry seasoning to taste

A pinch of thyme and marjoram (optional)

2 eggs, beaten

3 to 4 cups warm chicken broth

Melt butter in a large skillet or Dutch oven over medium heat. Sauté celery and onion until translucent, for about 5 to 7 minutes.

Making dressing is therapeutic to me. I love the aroma of celery and onions cooking in butter.

Add cornbread and biscuit crumbs and next 5 ingredients. (This is the point where I like to taste the mixture for flavor, before the eggs and broth are added.)

Stir in eggs. Gradually add chicken broth, 1 cup at a time. You may not need it all, so go slowly. And, on the other hand, you may need more. So be prepared. (When the mixture is in the baking dish it should easily jiggle, but not slosh.) Pour into a buttered 3-quart baking dish.

Bake at 375 degrees for 40 to 45 minutes until golden brown and thoroughly heated.

Yields 3 quarts

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Ingredients

  • 1 cup butter
  • 1 ½ cups celery, finely chopped
  • ¾ cup onion, finely chopped
  • 2 (9-inch) pans of cornbread, crumbled (Leslie’s Tried-and-True Cornbread), see page 179, Leslie’s Party Diaries
  • 3 to 4 biscuits, crumbled
  • 1 to 2 tablespoons salt
  • 1 tablespoon ground sage
  • 1 teaspoon pepper
  • Poultry seasoning to taste
  • A pinch of thyme and marjoram (optional)
  • 2 eggs, beaten
  • 3 to 4 cups warm chicken broth

Instructions

  1. Melt butter in a large skillet or Dutch oven over medium heat. Sauté celery and onion until translucent, for about 5 to 7 minutes.
  2. Add cornbread and biscuit crumbs and next 5 ingredients. (This is the point where I like to taste the mixture for flavor, before the eggs and broth are added.)
  3. Stir in eggs. Gradually add chicken broth, 1 cup at a time. You may not need it all, so go slowly. And, on the other hand, you may need more. So be prepared. (When the mixture is in the baking dish it should easily jiggle, but not slosh.) Pour into a buttered 3-quart baking dish.
  4. Bake at 375 degrees for 40 to 45 minutes until golden brown and thoroughly heated.
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Leave it to my mother to have a china pattern called “Mayflower”. We eat on it every year.

Coming up in the next few posts, easy-to-eat holiday appetizers, food gifts with packaging, and some very interesting cocktails. You don’t want to miss. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend and most of all, safe travels.

I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

3 thoughts on “Timing Is Everything

  1. Mary Walter Arthur
    Leslie, I think Mayflower must have been the china of choice for Mayfield, KY brides in the 50s. I have mom's and use it all the time. It's so gorgeous!

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