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Mastering the Art of Christmas

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn Buy the Book, sides, The Parties6 Comments

“It took me almost 54 years, but I think I’ve finally figured the whole Christmas thing out.”

Whether it’s timing the amaryllis to open on the exact party date or getting all the cards addressed and mailed before it’s too late, Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year, but also can be the most exhausting too.

Window shopping with friends in NYC is my favorite way to get ideas for everyone on my list and get into the holiday spirit.
Timing is Everything

It’s taken me over half of a century to figure out the minor details to make it relaxing and fun. Mastering the Art of Christmas comes from many years of doing it wrong. Here’s what I’ve discovered over the years to make everything right.

  1. Buy gifts for others that YOU really want yourself—like really bad.
  2. Stock up on festive, holiday tops and outfits in October, or earlier, before they are all picked over and obsolete—before resortwear comes out. You know you are going to want (need) something, and if you wait until December it could be a lost cause.
  3. In the day of social media craze, your friends are pretty up to date on you and your family and pets, so use your Christmas card fund to order customized gift tags for your food gifts. It will take them over the top. And while you are at it, order a new style of personalized notepaper to write all your thank-you notes. I like to have all of my notes in the mail before New Year’s Eve. Start the new year fresh!
    Elevate your homemade gifts with a professional-looking custom tag.

    The good news is that if you order too many gift tags, you will have plenty for next year. They will not go to waste.
  4. Buy at least one gift that is not on your child’s electronic (with links added) wish list. If their mouth doesn’t open at least once, you’ve missed the best part of gift giving.
  5. Make it your mission to be completely finished shopping by December 15th. The ten days before Christmas should be used for cooking, visiting, and celebrating.

    Pick up gift wrap and ribbon before Thanksgiving. As I’ve said before, wrap as you go!
  6. Everyone in your “monthly” life needs to be recognized in some way during the holidays. It doesn’t have to be much—just a thought. For instance, I gave my Fed Ex friend David a quart of my Get Well Chicken Noodle Soup that I had in the freezer. Eventually he is going to need it, running around in shorts all day long in the winter!
  7. ALWAYS have four or five extra gifts wrapped, and ready to tag quickly. You never know!
  8. Remember your friends’ children. You will be a hero.
  9. Keep a special photo album with one holiday picture of your family from each year. I like to do my photo by our tree. I never tire of looking at these. It will be the first thing I grab if the house catches on fire.
  10. Don’t let all of the tiring, silly, meaningless holiday details ever outshine the reason we are celebrating, and the importantance of being with family and friends. 
    Two separate outlets, two surge protectors, and a helpful husband with fly rods and ball retrievers can get the job done.

    Food Gift for Friends

    These Pickled Mustard Seeds are a welcome change from a heavy sweet for a food gift for friends. Simply add a few tablespoons to any roasted vegetables the last few minutes of cooking. They are especially tasty over Brussels sprouts and carrots.

    Pickled Mustard Seeds

    Makes 10 cups

    3 cups sugar

    10 teaspoons salt

    2 cups water

    3 cups white wine vinegar

    1 cup yellow mustard seeds

    1 cup brown mustard seeds

    20 garlic cloves (2 per jar)

    Combine all ingredients in a Dutch oven. Bring to a boil; reduce heat, and simmer for 5 minutes. Allow to cool before placing it into jars. It will keep at least a month in the refrigerator.

    This recipe makes 10 cups, but easily can be halved or quartered. 

    Yields 10 cups

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    Ingredients

    • 3 cups sugar
    • 10 teaspoons salt
    • 2 cups water
    • 3 cups white wine vinegar
    • 1 cup yellow mustard seeds
    • 1 cup brown mustard seeds
    • 20 garlic cloves (2 per jar)

    Instructions

    1. Combine all ingredients in a Dutch oven.
    2. Bring to a boil; reduce heat, and simmer for 5 minutes.
    3. Allow to cool before placing it into jars. It will keep at least a month in the refrigerator.
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    Keep your eye out for inexpensive package toppers like these cute whisks from Publix. $1.59 each

    Fabulous Finds

    From Murray’s in NYC, these attractive slate cheese boards made from Brooklyn Slate come in two sizes with their very own spreader, chalk, and burlap bag for storing. The smaller size is $24.99, large $29.99, murrayscheese.com

    “If you run across a fabulous gift idea, don’t be afraid to buy multiples for several of your friends. And when ordering online, always check the “free gift wrapping” option when available—even if it’s just for the box!”

    Need help keeping up with your stuff? There will never be a question whose is whose phone charger, platter, or jean jacket with IdentaMe Labels. With a million variations, icons, and more, these can be personalized for everyone on your list. $14.99 for 56 small round labels. Other sizes and styles available at identamelabels.com
    These classy, black craft boxes are available in all sizes from amazon.com. No paper needed, which really speeds up the wrapping process. Every gift looks like it came from Barneys!

    Now, on to the important things…

    What’s on my wish list?

    With a December 26th birthday, I can’t help but write a few things down on a wish list—this is my moment for the year!

    Maybe it’s the art major in me coming out, but this Dinner with Georgia O’Keeffe cookbook looks amazing! I always enjoy any new book or cookbook. It’s my inspiration. Available at bergdorfgoodman.com
    Look at a glimpse of these beautiful photos from Bergdorf’s website. I can’t wait to see every page!
    I admit, I’m handbag obsessed—they always fit! This clear Cult Gaia mini Ark Bag will go with anything. Please someone in my family read this post! cultgaia.com
    This bag will match any outfit. Summer, here I come!
    A girl can dream. I saw these Gucci slingbacks in person in New York. I love a beautiful shoe with a comfortable, block heel. And a shoe with a little bling never hurts! gucci.com
    I bought one of these Casafina Ibiza Individual Pasta bowls for a gazpacho photo last year, and now I eat out of it every day for lunch. This pottery is lightweight, microwave safe, ovenproof, and dishwasher safe. I’d love to have enough to set my table, and maybe the dinner plates too. Hint hint. Available at Table Matters, table-matters.com
    I don’t own a broach, but if I did I would want this one. It’s amazing how you can put it on anything (like any t-shirt or blazer) and it suddenly looks like Chanel! chanel.com
    I’m fascinated by this Dior Lip Glow. You apply evenly, and in 10 minutes your lips turn  “your” unique, natural color. Everyone is different. dior.com
    On Christmas Day I hope to be wearing these. They scream Christmas and are super comfy! May Leather Red-Star sneakers by Golden Goose, bergdorfgoodman.com

    Well, I guess this is a wrap for 2018. I’ve got a BUSY week. Lily is being presented at a debutante ball on Saturday, and we have a slew of folks coming in from SMU to celebrate. I’m having the pre festivities at my house. So, I better get cooking!

    I wish you all a wonderful holiday and Happy New Year. I’m gathering new recipes, ideas, and props for a fresh start in January. So be sure to subscribe to dearpartydiary.com so you won’t miss a single post. The party never ends.

    See you next year!

    I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Home Is Where Your China Is

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn Ask Leslie, beverages, breads & pastas, Buy the Book, desserts, mains, sides, The Parties2 Comments
Welcome to the holidays.

If you are one of those people who have been saving your fine china and crystal for a special occasion—well, this is it.

The holidays are the optimum time to use all your beautiful things and set a gorgeous table. It’s meant to be used!

I opted for a simple, elegant, family friendly menu this post to give you plenty of time to polish the silver and make a memory or two for your loved ones.

“Get the Goo Gone out. We are taking the stickers off the crystal!”

I went around and around trying to decide the best meat option for the main course. I thought about prime rib, lamb, steaks, but I always came back to Jon’s Foolproof Beef Tenderloin from Leslie’s Party Diaries. It is sincerely foolproof and it frees up the oven for the unbelievable Mock Cheese Soufflé—which is assembled the day before. How much easier can it get? So let’s get started!

Jon’s Foolproof Beef Tenderloin

Serves 10 to 12 

1 (6- to 7-pound) beef tenderloin, trimmed

Olive oil

Kosher salt and coarsely ground pepper

3 to 4 tablespoons Montreal Seasoning, optional

12 (6-inch) sprigs rosemary

Heavy-duty aluminum foil

Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce

Place beef tenderloin on a large piece of plastic wrap on a baking sheet. Coat completely with olive oil, Montreal Seasoning, salt, and pepper; rub into meat on all sides. Cover with sprigs of rosemary; wrap tightly in plastic wrap. Chill 2 hours or overnight.

Allow beef to come to room temperature before cooking.

Light one side of gas grill, heating to 400° to 450° (high) heat; leave other side unlit. Sear tenderloin over heated side of grill for 3 to 4 minutes on each side; transfer to unlit side, and cook, covered with grill lid, 10 to 12 minutes on each side, depending on the thickness of the tenderloin. (If using a charcoal grill, do the same with the hot coal side and the opposite side without coals.)

Remove from grill, and wrap tenderloin in 6 large pieces of heavy-duty aluminum foil (one at a time); roll up foil-wrapped tenderloin in a heavy beach towel. Let rest for 3 hours at room temperature.

Serve with Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce.

Be sure to save these rosemary sprigs from the marinade for the cooking process.
Equal parts of sour cream and horseradish give this quick sauce a ton of heat and flavor.

“Garnish galore!”

Set up a garnish station. All meats will greatly improve in appearance when decorated with herbs and assorted seasonal fruits and berries. Be creative!

Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce

Makes approx. 1 cup

 

4 tablespoons horseradish

4 tablespoons sour cream

1 teaspoon sugar

¼ teaspoon black pepper

½ teaspoon salt, or more to taste

2 teaspoons cider vinegar

Combine all ingredients. Store in refrigerator until ready to use. This can be done up to three days in advance. (This recipe can easily be doubled for a large crowd.)

Although the soufflé will deflate slightly after it’s taken out of the oven, it will not disappoint. In fact, it heats up beautifully in the microwave the next day, if there are any leftovers.

 Mock Cheese Soufflé

Serves 8

4 slices white sandwich bread, crusts removed

2 to 3 tablespoons softened butter, plus extra for greasing dish

4 eggs

2 cups whole milk

1 teaspoon salt

¼ teaspoon black pepper

¼ teaspoon dry mustard

¼ teaspoon hot sauce

2 cups grated sharp Cheddar cheese

Dash paprika

Spread softened butter on both sides of the bread; cut into 1-inch cubes.

In a medium bowl, combine eggs and next 5 ingredients, whisking to combine.

In a buttered 1 ½-quart baking dish, layer bread then cheese, repeating twice. Pour in milk mixture, and top with paprika. Cover and refrigerate overnight.

Bake in a water bath at 300 degrees for 1½ hours.

Learn from Leslie: To make a water bath, use a baking dish slightly larger than the one used for baking Mock Cheese Soufflé. Fill water in larger dish to about 1 to 1 1/2 inches. Put smaller dish in larger dish, and bake as directed.

“This is a nice change from a potato or grits side dish.”

This effortless impressive mock soufflé is a piece of cake since it is assembled the day before.

Yields 8 Servings

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Ingredients

  • 4 slices white sandwich bread, crusts removed
  • 2 to 3 tablespoons softened butter, plus extra for greasing dish
  • 4 eggs
  • 2 cups whole milk
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon black pepper
  • ¼ teaspoon dry mustard
  • ¼ teaspoon hot sauce
  • 2 cups grated sharp Cheddar cheese
  • Dash paprika

Instructions

  1. Spread softened butter on both sides of the bread; cut into 1-inch cubes.
  2. In a medium bowl, combine eggs and next 5 ingredients, whisking to combine.
  3. In a buttered 1 ½-quart baking dish, layer bread then cheese, repeating twice. Pour in milk mixture, and top with paprika. Cover and refrigerate overnight.
  4. Bake in a water bath at 300 degrees for 1½ hours.
  5. Learn from Leslie: To make a water bath, use a baking dish slightly larger than the one used for baking Mock Cheese Soufflé. Fill water in larger dish to about 1 to 1 1/2 inches. Put smaller dish in larger dish, and bake as directed.
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Everyone likes green beans. This crowd-pleasing recipe will elimate any extra cooking for the children in your family.

Holiday Haricot Verts

Serves 8 to 10

1 ½ pounds fresh haricot verts (thin French green beans)

2 tablespoons olive oil

2 tablespoons butter

3 garlic cloves, sliced

2 shallots, thinly sliced

1 red pepper, sliced into strips

1 orange pepper, sliced into strips

Zest from 1 lemon

1 teaspoon black pepper

½ to 1 teaspoon salt

In a medium-size Dutch oven blanch trimmed beans in a pot of boiling water for 4 to 5 minutes or until tender. Immediately place cooked beans in a bowl of ice water. Allow to cool; then place on a paper towel to dry.

Heat oil and butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add garlic and shallots, and cook 2 to 3 minutes. Add peppers and remaining ingredients. Sauté until thoroughly heated. Serve immediately.

Learn from Leslie: The beans can be blanched a day or two in advance. The peppers can be cut in advance too. This recipe also reheats beautifully.

Parmesan Puff Pastry Breadsticks

Makes approx. 22

1 (17.3-ounce) box puff pastry

1 egg

1 tablespoon water

Flour, for dusting

1½ cups shredded Parmesan

1 teaspoon kosher salt

Freshly ground black pepper

Parchment paper

Allow the puff pastry to thaw overnight in the refrigerator, or follow counter thawing directions on package.

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Beat egg and water in a small bowl.

Place puff pastry one sheet at a time, onto lightly floured surface, rolling it to be slightly bigger, about 10 by 12 inches. Brush pastry with egg mixture, covering the entire surface. Top with half of the Parmesan and salt, then sprinkle with freshly ground black pepper. Gently press the cheese into the pastry with your fingers.

Cut into ¾-inch to 1-inch strips. (I use a pastry wheel, but a pizza cutter will work too.) Twist each strip several times, and place on parchment-lined baking sheet. Bake 10 to 15 minutes or until lightly browned. Remove from the oven, turn each breadstick, and bake another minute or two.

“Making your own breadsticks eliminates a last minute trip to the bakery and fighting holiday traffic!”

Don’t dilly-dally while you are making these. The dough is easiest to work with while it is cold.

Frozen Brandy Alexander

Yield: 1 serving

1 cup vanilla ice cream

1 ½ ounces brandy

¾ ounce white crème de cacao

White chocolate curls for garnish, optional

Place ice cream, brandy, and crème de cacao in a blender, and process until smooth. Top with white chocolate curls, and serve immediately.

Learn from Leslie: I use a vegetable peeler to make the pretty little chocolate curls. Look for a good-quality chocolate bar too. These can also be made ahead and kept in the freezer. Believe me—they will not freeze.

“These are the consistency of eggnog, which makes it easy to sip through a pretty straw.”

All you need for the garnish is one good quality white chocolate bar and a vegetable peeler.
Pick up an assortment of store-bought cookies to pass.

“These adorable matchbooks are a two-for-one-special. They serve as the place card and a party favor.”

Add the names with a simple tag made on a printer. Tie them on with waxed thread. Available at shoppebham.com, $4.50 each
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Thanksgiving—I wouldn’t change a thing.

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn appetizers, Ask Leslie, beverages, soups, The Parties5 Comments

“All this talk about food is making me thirsty.”

You may have been anticipating that I would share new, inventive side dishes for your Thanksgiving feast in this post, but I wouldn’t do that to you and your family. Let’s be honest, we all crave what we have grown to expect and love on this food intoxicating holiday. So instead, I’ve decided to share a few “extras” to jazz up your spread, and get you through the busy week ahead.

“As much as I like to try a new recipe, Thanksgiving is not the time to experiment with the family favorites. Change up your menu with a new appetizer or beverage instead.”

Cranberry-Jalapeño Salsa served with sweet potato chips not only makes a festive appetizer but also serves as a nice relish with your Thanksgiving meal. And if there is any left over, you can put it on a turkey sandwich the next day.

Cranberry-Jalapeño Salsa

Makes about 2 ½ cups

12 ounces fresh cranberries

1 red bell pepper, finely chopped

2 jalapeños, seeded and finely chopped

1 garlic clove, minced

4 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro, plus extra for garnish

Juice of 3 limes

½ cup sugar

2 tablespoons honey

Dash of hot sauce

Purple cabbage, for serving

Sweet potato chips

Place cranberries in the bowl of a food processor. Pulse several times until cranberries are evenly and finely chopped, scraping down sides of the bowl once.

In a medium-size bowl, combine chopped cranberries and next 8 ingredients. Refrigerate for 2 to 3 hours, and up to 2 weeks.

Garnish with chopped cilantro, and serve in purple cabbage (See Learn from Leslie, below) with sweet potato chips.

Cranberries should be in a Cuisinart demonstration. They process beautifully! And just think, there’s one less serving bowl to wash at the end of the day!

Learn from Leslie: To serve in a cabbage bowl, carefully remove the outer, dark leaves. With a knife remove a small amount of the bottom of the cabbage so it will sit evenly. Then cut a circle around the top edge, and hollow out a portion to hold the salsa.

Let’s talk about impressive adult beverages…

My new favorite drink with my new favorite toy. Read on to find out more.

Gold Rush Cocktail

Makes 1 drink

1 tablespoon honey

1 tablespoon water

Ice, plus extra for serving

4 tablespoons bourbon

2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice

Stir together honey and water in a microwave-safe dish. Heat for about 10 seconds or until warm. Fill a cocktail shaker with ice; add honey mixture, bourbon, and lemon juice. Shake for about 30 seconds to combine thoroughly. Pour over ice, and garnish with a colorful pansy, if desired.

“Come to think of it, my dad used to give me these exact ingredients as a child to stop coughing in the night.” 

Now to hear about my new favorite toy…

I can’t wait to set an entire dinner table with my Bottle Light Glorifier Glow Wine Bottle Stickers, 5 for $11.99, amazon.com They come is several colors too. These LED stickers are warm white.

Cocktails have never been as much fun as they are when you attach a LED sticker to the bottom. There’s four modes: on, off, slow blinking, and fast blinking! They are spectacular under wine and liquor bottles too. Order yours now for the holidays. Bottle Light Glorifier Glow Wine Bottle Stickers, available at amazon.com

Peel off the protective paper and stick away. The on/off button is on the other side.

Now for a simple supper by the fire…

Unfortunately and fortunately, we will all need to eat between now and Thanksgiving, so here is an economical, satisfying, company-worthy soup to serve on a busy weeknight or any night. Oven-proof bowl by Earthborn Pottery, earthbornpottery.net

Easy French Onion Soup

Serves 6

3 large yellow onions

3 sweet onions, such as Vidalia

6 tablespoons butter

4 to 5 sprigs fresh thyme

4 bay leaves

1 cup dry white wine

4 cups beef broth

1 (14.5 ounce) carton low sodium chicken broth

1 dash Worcestershire sauce

Salt and pepper to taste

1 baguette

Olive oil

1 (8-ounce) block of Gruyère cheese, grated

With a sharp knife, thinly slice onions. Melt butter in a Dutch oven over medium heat; add onions, fresh thyme, and bay leaves. Stir occasionally until the onions are caramelized and a rich, dark brown color. This process will take about 35 to 40 minutes.

Add wine and next 4 ingredients. Simmer for 45 minutes. Be sure to remove the bay leaves and thyme sprigs before serving.

While the soup simmers, preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Slice the baguette into ½-inch slices. Brush both sides with olive oil; bake for 15 minutes, flipping halfway through. Remove from the oven.

Increase the oven to broil. Spoon soup into oven-proof crock or bowl, place a baguette or two on top of soup, and top with cheese. Broil until cheese is hot and bubbly and begins to brown.

Don’t be afraid to mix antique Ironstone Transferware with an earthy piece of pottery. Pottery by Earthborn Pottery, earthbornpottery.net

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Ingredients

  • 3 large yellow onions
  • 3 sweet onions, such as Vidalia
  • 6 tablespoons butter
  • 4 to 5 sprigs fresh thyme
  • 4 bay leaves
  • 1 cup dry white wine
  • 4 cups beef broth
  • 1 (14.5 ounce) carton low sodium chicken broth
  • 1 dash Worcestershire sauce
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • 1 baguette
  • Olive oil

Instructions

  1. With a sharp knife, thinly slice onions. Melt butter in a Dutch oven over medium heat; add onions, fresh thyme, and bay leaves. Stir occasionally until the onions are caramelized and a rich, dark brown color. This process will take about 35 to 40 minutes.
  2. Add wine and next 4 ingredients. Simmer for 45 minutes. Be sure to remove the bay leaves and thyme sprigs before serving.
  3. While the soup simmers, preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Slice the baguette into ½-inch slices. Brush both sides with olive oil; bake for 15 minutes, flipping halfway through. Remove from the oven.
  4. Increase the oven to broil. Spoon soup into oven-proof crock or bowl, place a baguette or two on top of soup, and top with cheese. Broil until cheese is hot and bubbly and begins to brown.
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Fabulous Beverage Find

Need a quick welcome beverage? Or an alternative to a mimosa? Give this Austrian Beer with fruit soda a try. Stiegl Radler Grapefruit, $10.29 for a 4-pack (each can is 1 pint 0.9 ounces) stiegl-shop.at, and available at most grocery stores in the beer section. (Rumor has it this mixes well with vodka!)

My Thanksgiving memories…

My mom (A.K.A. Emily Post) always loved burning candles at our Thanksgiving meal. We would usually eat around 4:30 p.m., when it was “properly” dark enough to light them. This would make for a more relaxing day of cooking too. After a late breakfast, we would sip on mimosas or bloody Marys while finishing the rest of the cooking. I’d play a few hands of gin fireside with my dad between my turns in the kitchen. If time would allow, my sister Beth would organize a Ping-Pong bracket for a little “pre” turkey cardio. It was an awesome day, and I wouldn’t change a thing. Now it’s even better with my girls helping with the cooking, ice water, and place cards, and Jon helping Dad tend the fire while also contributing his famous squash casserole. Too bad it only happens once a year!

I’d love to hear about your Thanksgiving traditions. Tell me all about them in the comments.
Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving!

The Making of a Party

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn Ask Leslie, Buy the Book, The Parties7 Comments

“Have a vision.”

Well in advance, begin gathering the party supplies. You probably have more than you think sitting around your house. Get a pile going. It will be a motivating source of excitement.

“Look around.”

Anything can be anything. Three palettes found in a discard pile make the perfect height and size for a coffee table for a large sitting area. Palette Tip: the cute blue ones are about 5 times as heavy, so plan accordingly.

“Redecorate.”

Rearrange what you already own. Like for instance, I moved my outdoor furniture from the covered porch to the middle of the yard, which opened up a new spot to dine.

“Google everything.”

These adorable Moroccan paper plates from Amazon sat neatly on my wooden chargers. Instead of water glasses, I purchased La Croix sparkling water in cans that matched the tablecloth. No one even noticed they didn’t have a water glass and were eating on paper plates. The cleanup was a piece of cake.

“Keep the food nearby.”

When eating outdoors, try to keep the dining area as close to the food as possible. You want everyone to easily be able to access seconds and thirds!

“Beg, borrow, and steal.”

Ask friends and family for anything you might need. Don’t be afraid to mix-and-match. An assortment of Moscow mule mugs are far more interesting than a matching set. And, yes, I used paper straws.

“Cutting rights.”

Keep your eyes peeled when driving around town and take note of the houses with abundant flowering hedges. Ask before cutting and always leave a small gift or thank-you note to show your appreciation.

“Simplify the appetizers.”

When cooking an entire meal for a crowd, don’t wear yourself out making a ton of appetizers. Like I mention in my book, Leslie’s Party Diaries, the Ritz-Carlton Trio is always a hit. Simply fill a 3-way container with any nibbles you have in the pantry.

“Prep so you can play.”

I always prep everything possible a day or two ahead. This tip is a game changer.

“Stay on point.”

Stick with your theme from start to finish, like this spectacular Moroccan wedding cake made by Olexa’s Catering and Cakes, olexas.com

“Dress the part.”

Plan ahead if you are the guest of honor. Make all alterations and have your outfit and accessories ready to go.

“The parting gift.”

Clearance shelves almost always have a prize or two. It’s my first stop when looking for party favors. These little vases from west elm doubled as the centerpiece too. westelm.com

“The reward.”

And finally, always allow a few minutes to enjoy all your hard work after a party. This may be my favorite coffee spot around the house.

For all of the recipes from the Moroccan birthday dinner, go to Moroccan Made Easy a past post from February 28, 2018. (or click on the red type above)

Now it’s your turn to start planning your own party. You will be surprised how rewarding and fun it will be.

Also, I love to brainstorm about parties. So, if you need any help, just ask! Have a great weekend. Leslie

I still have a few books left in the basement. If you need a gift or two go to Buy the Book on this post, or to my website at lesliespartydiaries.com

 

Pretty Parties

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn appetizers, brunch, desserts, mains, salads, sides, The Parties, The Recipes

“Special occasions should feel special.”

When I’m hosting a birthday, shower, or any other festive family occasion, I want it to look like I have tried. But, on the other hand, I don’t want to give up my entire week or weekend making that happen. These recipes are company worthy and easy—a winning combination.

For all you Birmingham folks, the recipes in today’s post ran in the May/June issue of Birmingham Home and Garden magazine. So, if you subscribe, I apologize for the duplicates; but if you don’t, or have misplaced your issue, don’t fret—the recipes are all here. Well, almost all. I’m saving the Overnight Cinnamon French Toast for maybe Father’s Day. Stay tuned.

You all know how much I adore a package topper. How easy is slipping one seed packet under the bow?
Set the tone for any party with these unique Cucumber-and-Petal Tea Sandwiches. Each one is a litte work of art.
Get creative with the toppings. And don’t worry—it takes only a handful of ingredients to make them all special.

Cucumber-and-Petal Tea Sandwiches

Makes 36 (approx)

1 (8-ounce) package cream cheese, softened

3 tablespoons grated cucumber, excess water removed

1 tablespoon grated onion

¼ cup fresh dill

2 tablespoons mayonnaise

¼ teaspoon salt

1 loaf very thin white bread

Garnish with radish and cucumber slices, edible flowers, and fresh herbs

Be sure to slice the cucumbers and radishes thinly. It will make them easier to eat.

Combine first 6 ingredients in a small bowl; set aside. Trim crusts from bread to desired size. (I used a fluted pastry cutter. A cookie cutter will also work.) Spread cucumber mixture evenly on the bread, and garnish away!

This makes a nice appetizer to serve before lunch.

“And speaking of lunch…”

Celebration Shrimp Salad is a “healthy-ish” make-ahead option for anytime, not just a special occasion.

Celebration Shrimp Salad

Serves 4 to 6 (recipe easily can be doubled)

1 pound shrimp

1 cup finely chopped celery

3 Roma tomatoes, seeded and chopped

¼ cup green pepper, finely chopped

2 tablespoons pimiento or 2-ounce jar, drained thoroughly

1 tablespoon finely chopped green onion, (reserving tops for garnish)

½ teaspoon salt

¼ teaspoon pepper

Sour Cream Dressing

1 cup sour cream

½ cup ketchup

1 tablespoon soy sauce

1 tablespoon grated onion

1 teaspoon horseradish

½ teaspoon dry mustard

Place shrimp in a medium saucepan of boiling water. Cook for 2 to 3 minutes or until shrimp turn pink. Pour into a strainer, and rinse with cold water. Peel and place into a medium bowl. Set aside.

Add next 5 ingredients to the shrimp. (Note: With a paper towel remove excess moisture from the pimientos and tomatoes before adding them to the shrimp mixture.)

Sour Cream Dressing:

Combine all ingredients in a small bowl, mixing thoroughly. Immediately before serving, toss shrimp mixture with half of Sour Cream Dressing.

Serve shrimp salad on lettuce cups. Pass remainder of the dressing if desired. Garnish with reserved green onion tops.

Yields 4-6 Servings

Celebration Shrimp Salad w/ Sour Cream Dressing
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Ingredients

  • 1 pound shrimp
  • 1 cup finely chopped celery
  • 3 Roma tomatoes, seeded and chopped
  • ¼ cup green pepper, finely chopped
  • 2 tablespoons pimiento or 2-ounce jar, drained thoroughly
  • 1 tablespoon finely chopped green onion, (reserving tops for garnish)
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon pepper
    • Sour Cream Dressing
  • 1 cup sour cream
  • ½ cup ketchup
  • 1 tablespoon soy sauce
  • 1 tablespoon grated onion
  • 1 teaspoon horseradish
  • ½ teaspoon dry mustard

Instructions

  1. Place shrimp in a medium saucepan of boiling water. Cook for 2 to 3 minutes or until shrimp turn pink. Pour into a strainer, and rinse with cold water. Peel and place into a medium bowl. Set aside.
  2. Add next 5 ingredients to the shrimp. (Note: With a paper towel remove excess moisture from the pimientos and tomatoes before adding them to the shrimp mixture.)
    3. Sour Cream Dressing:
  3. Combine all ingredients in a small bowl, mixing thoroughly. Immediately before serving, toss shrimp mixture with half of Sour Cream Dressing.
  4. Serve shrimp salad on lettuce cups. Pass remainder of the dressing if desired. Garnish with reserved green onion tops.
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Serve with Sweet Corn Pudding and any simple marinated asparagus recipe.
Allow the corn pudding to rest for a few minutes after baking.

Sweet Corn Pudding

Serves 4 to 6

6 ears fresh corn, kernels removed

3 tablespoons sugar

1 teaspoon salt

¼ teaspoon pepper

2 large eggs, lightly beaten

2 tablespoons butter, melted

1 cup milk

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Lightly grease a 1 ½-quart baking dish.

Stir together all ingredients in a medium bowl. Pour into prepared dish. (Place baking dish inside a larger baking pan; fill pan halfway up with water. This “water bath” will keep the pudding moist.) Bake for 45 minutes or until set.

“And for the moment you’ve been waiting for…”

Do you remember the Lorna Doone cookies??? They’re back!

No-Churn Strawberry Shortbread Ice Cream

Serves 6 to 8

2 cups fresh strawberries, plus extra for garnish

2 tablespoons sugar

2 cups whipping cream, chilled

1 (14-ounce) can sweetened condensed milk

2 teaspoons vanilla

12 shortbread cookies

Fresh mint

Wash and hull strawberries, and place in a medium bowl. Sprinkle strawberries with sugar; set aside.

Beat cream with an electric mixer until stiff peaks form; add sweetened condensed milk, combine thoroughly; set aside.

Place strawberries in a food processor, and pulse 2 or 3 times.

Place cookies in a ziplock bag, and pound until crumbly.

Layer cream mixture, strawberries, and cookies in a 9 by 5-inch loaf pan, repeating twice. Swirl the layers with the blade of a knife after each layer. Top with remaining strawberry slices.

Cover tightly with several sheets of plastic wrap. Freeze for 5 to 6 hours or overnight. (Carefully press plastic wrap onto ice cream mixture to prevent any ice crystals from forming.)

Remove from the refrigerator 10 to 15 minutes prior to serving. Garnish with strawberries and fresh mint.

Leslie Likes: Lorna Doone Shortbread Cookies

Fabulous Find

These slim (8-ounce) cans of Zing Zang Bloody Mary mix are handy for smaller gatherings and travel. $9.99 per 6-pack, zingzang.com (For Birmingham readers, I bought these at the Crestline Piggly Wiggly!)

Also, special thanks to Grace Register for taking time out of her busy work schedule to index all of my past blog posts for me. She is one smart cookie!

Since October when I launched dearpartydiary.com, I’ve managed to come up with some pretty tasty recipes—65 to be exact, so if you may have skipped a week or two, take time to go back through the posts and see what all you have missed! It should be a “piece of cake” now, thanks to Grace!

“The finishing touches…”

It’s easy to grow your own edible flowers, such as nasturtiums. Simply follow the instructions on the back of the seed packet and don’t skip the step to soak them in water overnight before planting. They will germinate much faster. Seeds available at Oak Street Garden Shop, oakstreetgardenshop.com
Don’t be embarassed to serve your guests on paper plates. There are so many pretty options out there now, like these from Table Matters, Mountain Brook, AL. 205/879-0125
I still have a few books left in the basement. If you need a gift or two go to Buy the Book on this post, or to my website at lesliespartydiaries.com Have a great week! leslie

Cinco de Derby

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn appetizers, appetizers, beverages, breads & pastas, brunch, The Parties, The Recipes2 Comments
How can two such festive occasions happen on the same day? What is a girl to do?

This is the first time that I can remember that Cinco de Mayo and the Kentucky Derby have fallen on the same day.

“Wow, what a toss-up!”

So let’s celebrate both this week—just because we can.

Oh wait, one quick FUN FACT from my ever-so-smart copy editor, Susan Alison (who makes me look good week after week!):

May 5, 1973- Secretariat won, starting his quest for the Triple Crown! 

“And we’re off!”

Traveling always inspires me to try new recipes. While I was in Cabo last week, I ordered a Jalapeño Margarita poolside. It was one of the best margaritas I’ve ever had, so I asked the bartender to walk me through the steps on how he made this delicious creation. So here it goes.

These fresh margaritas get their color strictly from the jalapeño and the lime juice alone. No processed mix here!

Jalapeño Margarita

Makes 2

2/3 cup tequila

½ cup simple syrup

¼ cup Cointreau

1 large jalapeño, seeds removed

Juice from 4 limes

1 tablespoon chili powder

1 tablespoon kosher salt

1 tablespoon hot sauce

Ice

Put first 5 ingredients in a blender. Blend thoroughly, and set aside. In a small, flat bowl stir together chili powder and salt. Place hot sauce in a separate bowl. Dip the rim of each glass in the hot sauce, then salt mixture and fill with ice. Pour margarita mixture over ice. Garnish with a lime slice or jalapeño if desired.

The sweetness of the simple syrup and Cointreau smooth out the acidity of the lime juice. You won’t be able to have just one! Serve with Crunchy Fried Plantains and a spicy ranch dressing dipping sauce.

Learn from Leslie: To make simple syrup, “simply” boil equal parts of water and sugar. I like to do 3 cups at a time and keep it ready to go in the refrigerator.

Yields 2 Margaritas

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Ingredients

  • 2/3 cup tequila
  • ½ cup simple syrup
  • ¼ cup Cointreau
  • 1 large jalapeño, seeds removed
  • Juice from 4 limes
  • 1 tablespoon chili powder
  • 1 tablespoon kosher salt
  • 1 tablespoon hot sauce
  • Ice

Instructions

  1. Put first 5 ingredients in a blender. Blend thoroughly, and set aside.
  2. In a small, flat bowl stir together chili powder and salt.
  3. Place hot sauce in a separate bowl. Dip the rim of each glass in the hot sauce, then salt mixture and fill with ice.
  4. Pour margarita mixture over ice.
  5. Garnish with a lime slice or jalapeño if desired.
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A plantain is NOT a green banana. They should be carefully marked. Ask if you are not sure. I was surprised how inexpensive they are. Each of these plantains was 25 cents!

Crunchy Fried Plantains

Serves 4 to 6 as an appetizer nibble

3 to 4 plantains

48 ounces peanut oil

3 garlic cloves, peeled and halved

Kosher salt

Spicy ranch dressing

With a chef knife remove both ends (about 1 inch) of the plantain. With the tip of the knife make a cut down the entire length of the plantain. Peel and remove skin and discard. Cut plantain in half, then quarter. With cut side down, carefully slice plantain strips as thinly as possible. Repeat with remaining.

Be sure not to crowd the pan. The plantains will get crispier and browner in small batches. They will keep for several hours, so feel free to do them in advance.

In a Dutch oven heat oil and garlic cloves to medium high. Cook plantains in batches until golden brown, stirring frequently to keep them from sticking together. Place on a lightly salted paper towel to drain. Sprinkle with additional salt.

Serve with a spicy ranch dressing for dipping.

The slightly sweet homemade chip goes beautifully with a spicy margarita. It’s a nice alternative to a salty chip.

Now on to the next…

If you haven’t noticed, there is a julep craze going on this year. Garden and Gun magazine has asked restaurants to invent their own creation of this classic drink. Well, I don’t own a restaurant, but I was up for the challenge.

Tropical Mint Juleps with Pineapple Cigar

Makes 2

1 pineapple spear from a whole fresh pineapple, plus extra for cigar garnishes

5 fresh mint leaves, plus extra for cigar garnish

3 ounces bourbon

1 tablespoon powdered sugar

½ cup pineapple juice

Wooden picks

In a small pitcher, place pineapple, mint leaves, and bourbon. With a muddler or end of a wooden spoon, break up pineapple spear and crush mint leaves. Add powdered sugar and juice. Combine well. Serve over crushed ice. Garnish with pineapple cigar.

Learn from Leslie: To make garnish, use 2 larger fresh mint leaves to resemble the wrapper on a cigar. Use a long wooden pick to hold them in place.

I’ve always been a fan of rum and pineapple juice. I can’t believe I have never tried it with bourbon. Give it a try!
Serve the Tropical Mint Juleps with Mama Lil’s Biscuits filled with Heavenly Ham Salad for an irresistible bite.

Mama Lil’s Biscuits

Makes 45 to 50 1-inch biscuits

2 cups all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons baking powder

2 teaspoons baking soda

1 teaspoon salt

6 tablespoons shortening, such as Crisco

½ cup buttermilk, plus extra if needed

Preheat oven to 450 degrees.

In a medium bowl, combine first 4 ingredients well using the tines of a fork. Add shortening, and combine thoroughly until evenly distributed and crumbly. Add buttermilk, and combine until dough forms. (Add extra buttermilk 1 teaspoon at a time if needed.)

On a floured surface, roll dough out into a rectangle to ½-inch thickness. Cut into 1-inch pieces with a paring knife. Place together on a parchment-lined baking sheet. Bake 5 to 7 minutes until done and lightly browned. Allow to cool.

Biscuits like to touch! By placing them close together you will make them rise more.
This spreadable salad is an ideal accompaniment for these tiny biscuits.

Heavenly Ham Salad

Makes 2 ½ cups

½ pound deli ham (ask the butcher to slice it in 2 to 3 thicker slices)

½ cup chopped celery

¼ cup sweet pickles

½ cup mayonnaise

Coarsely chop the thickly sliced ham before placing it into the food processor. Process the ham alone, and then add the chopped celery and pickles.

Place ham in a food processor, and process until fine. Add celery and pickles; pulse several times until thoroughly combined. Remove mixture from the food processor bowl, and place into a mixing bowl. Add mayonnaise, and combine well. Refrigerate until ready to use.

Leslie Likes: Wickles Pickles and Duke’s Mayonnaise

Filling the Biscuits:

Split the biscuits in half, and fill with about 1 teaspoon of Heavenly Ham Salad. Serve with Tropical Mint Juleps.

For a quick centerpiece, place one pretty bloom in a recycled bourbon bottle.
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Recipes That Travel

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn appetizers, beverages, Buy the Book, mains, salads, sides8 Comments

When I’m headed to the lake or beach for the weekend, I like to do my prep on the front end. The last thing I want to do when I arrive is get back in the car and go to the grocery store.

All of these recipes can be made ahead, or prepped in advance, to ensure less toting and a more relaxing weekend.

The lemon juice brightens up the canned artichokes to give them a fresher taste. This dip can be made up to 48 hours in advance and stored in an airtight container.

Make-Ahead Hot Artichoke Dip

Makes 4 cups

1 (14-ounce) can artichoke hearts, chopped

1 (4-ounce) jar sun-dried tomatoes in oil, drained

8 ounces good-quality feta cheese, crumbled

1 cup light mayo

2 to 3 garlic cloves, minced

Juice of half lemon

¼ teaspoon black pepper

Garnish with basil (optional)

Assorted crackers

In a medium-size bowl combine first 7 ingredients. Refrigerate until ready to bake. (This can be done up to 48 hours in advance.)

Place in a lightly greased 1½-quart baking dish. Bake at 375 degrees for 15 to 20 minutes until hot and bubbly. Garnish if desired. Serve with crackers.

Learn from Leslie: For a small crowd, I like to bake only half at a time.

I always have these ingredients on hand to whip this up the night or two before a trip. It’s a nice alternative to soft drinks. At breakfast time in the summer, I drink this instead of coffee!

Refreshing Lemonade Tea

Makes 1 gallon

10 regular-size tea bags

8 cups of boiling water

1 cup of sugar

1 (12-ounce) can lemonade concentrate

Lemon wedges for garnish (optional)

Place tea bags in a 2-quart measuring cup or heatproof bowl. Pour boiling water over tea bags and allow to steep for 30 minutes. Remove tea bags, and pour tea into a 1-gallon container. Add sugar, and stir until dissolved. Next add lemonade concentrate and water to fill container. Stir to combine. Chill and serve over ice with lemon wedges if desired.

Wild Rice Chicken Salad

I like to poach the chicken in water with a dash of salt and a drizzle of olive oil, instead of baking it, for this recipe. It stays moist and white. This makes an easy supper or a quick lunch. I often use this dressing on a green salad too. It’s that good.

Fresh lemon juice will keep the avocados from turning brown.

Wild Rice Chicken Salad

Serves 5 to 6 (1 cup servings)

1 (6-ounce) box Uncle Ben’s long grain wild rice, cooked and cooled

4 chicken breast halves, cooked and diced

1 bunch green onions, chopped

1 red bell pepper, diced

2 medium avocados

Juice of 1 lemon

1 cup pecans, toasted

Dressing:

2 cloves garlic, minced

1 tablespoon Dijon mustard

½ teaspoon salt

¼ teaspoon sugar

¼ teaspoon black pepper

1/3 cup seasoned rice wine vinegar

1/3 cup vegetable oil

Mix all salad ingredients, except avocado and pecans in a large bowl. Set aside.

Combine dressing ingredients in a jar and shake until combined.

Toss salad mixture with dressing. Serve on a bed of leaf lettuce and garnish with avocado and toasted pecans. (The salad will keep several days once tossed.)

Yields 5-6 Servings (1 cup servings)

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Ingredients

  • 1 (6-ounce) box Uncle Ben’s long grain wild rice, cooked and cooled
  • 4 chicken breast halves, cooked and diced
  • 1 bunch green onions, chopped
  • 1 red bell pepper, diced
  • 2 medium avocados
  • Juice of 1 lemon
  • 1 cup pecans, toasted
    • Dressing:
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 tablespoon Dijon mustard
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon sugar
  • ¼ teaspoon black pepper
  • 1/3 cup seasoned rice wine vinegar
  • 1/3 cup vegetable oil

Instructions

  1. Mix all salad ingredients, except avocado and pecans in a large bowl. Set aside.
  2. Combine dressing ingredients in a jar and shake until combined.
  3. Toss salad mixture with dressing. Serve on a bed of leaf lettuce and garnish with avocado and toasted pecans. (The salad will keep several days once tossed.)
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It’s one less step when the marinade and sauce are the same. You can easily transport the flank steak in a ziplock bag. If there is any leftover Chimichurri sauce, it is tasty over grilled chicken or pasta for another meal.

Grilled Flank Steak with Chimichurri Sauce

Serves 6

6 garlic cloves

2 large shallots

1 jalapeño

¾ cup red wine vinegar

1 ½ teaspoons salt (or to taste)

3 cups fresh cilantro

1 ½ cups parsley

¾ cup oregano

1 ¼ cups olive oil

1 (2-pound) flank steak

Garnish with cilantro and grilled mini sweet peppers

Roughly chop the garlic, shallots, and jalapeño, and place into the bowl of a food processor. Add vinegar and salt; pulse 3 to 4 times (max) until evenly chopped.

With a knife, roughly chop next 3 ingredients (all herbs), and add to food processor. Add oil, and pulse 2 times; stop and stir mixture to ensure even chopping. Pulse 2 to 3 more times until coarsely and evenly chopped.

In a large ziplock bag, evenly coat flank steak with 1 cup of the Chimichurri marinade and sauce. Refrigerate for at least 8 hours or overnight.

Remove flank steak from marinade, and pat dry. Grill at medium-high for 8 to 10 minutes on each side or until desired doneness. Allow to rest 5 minutes before slicing. Serve with remaining 2 cups of Chimichurri sauce.

Learn from Leslie: Grill the mini sweet peppers for 10 minutes while grilling the steak.

These sweet mini peppers are found in the produce section at most grocery stores.

Shake and Bake Parsley Potatoes

Do your prepping in the comfort of your own home, and place in bags ready to go. All there is left to do is quarter, toss, and bake when you arrive. This simple recipe not only tastes delicious with steak but pairs easily with shrimp and chicken too. It’s a real crowd-pleaser.

Shake and Bake Parsley Potatoes

Serves 8

3 pounds red potatoes

1 gallon ziplock bag

1 snack size ziplock bag

2 tablespoons garlic cloves, minced (about 4 to 5)

2 tablespoons parsley, finely chopped

1 teaspoons kosher salt

1 teaspoon black pepper

¼ cup olive oil

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Wash potatoes, pat dry, and put in a gallon zip lock bag. In a separate snack- size ziplock or small bag combine next 4 ingredients. Refrigerate until ready to bake.

Cut into quarters, and return to the bag; add seasonings and ¼ cup olive oil. Seal and shake until thoroughly coated.

Preheat baking sheet for 5 minutes. Remove from the oven, and pour potato mixture out of bag onto the hot baking sheet. Bake 40 to 45 minutes or until golden brown, stopping halfway through to flip potatoes. Serve immediately.

Safe travels, everyone!
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Checking In

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn Ask Leslie, Buy the Book2 Comments

Hey everybody!

Don’t think that I forgot you. It’s been crazy around here this month! I’ve been to Dallas for Mom’s Weekend to see Lily. Last weekend I was in Charleston with Sallie taking a second look at College of Charleston. Yes, it’s March 15th and she still hasn’t picked a college yet. Making me a little crazy!!

I’ve been shooting all week for the May/June issue of Birmingham Home and Garden. Stay tuned. Be sure to pick up a copy or go to their website for all of my recipes each issue. (The recipes are in the ENTERTAINING catagory in the menu bar.)  birminghamhomeandgarden.com

Tomorrow I’m headed to New Orleans for a little R & R. hahaha  The next two weekends after that are spring break. Nutty. (I’m not complaining.) I can’t wait to get there and send photos. I’m going to one of my favorite spots!!!

I love spring and being away from a computer. It’s time for us all to put our hands in the sand or some dirt. Get outside and breathe some fresh air. So, the posts may be spaced out a little more these next few weeks, so bare with me.

Be sure to follow me on Instagram. I have two accounts–one for personal and the other for business, but they ususally overlap a lot! So follow both! I’m going to be doing lots of posts on them while I’m traveling. I may even throw in a few recipes here and there. Think of it as my “summer style” mini mini magazine.

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See you next week!

Leslie

P.S. Okay, I have to admit, I’m a little disappointed no one asked me about this week’s post. I got a ton of views yesterday which makes me think you missed me??? I love getting mail, so comment anytime.

I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Breakfast Lessons

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn breads & pastas, brunch, desserts6 Comments

‘Trailer for sale or rent, rooms to let, fifty cents….’

When I was in high school, I woke up every Sunday morning to Roger Miller’s voice singing King of the Road throughout the house on my dad’s stereo. He thought it was funny to wake my sister and me up for church that way. His thoughts were similar to the old proverb “If you’re going to hoot with the owls at night, you better be able to soar with the eagles in the morning.”

It was always worth getting out of bed, because that was Dad’s day to cook breakfast.

My dad could give breakfast lessons. He’s got it down to a science.

His specialty is made-to-order eggs. He can make them any style. He adds a little hot sauce before serving. The order in which you wake up is the order in which you are served!

Omelets to order, no problem! This silly picture was taken during an Iron Bowl weekend. Dad normally doesn’t cook breakfast in a Bear Bryant hat!

For pancakes, he’s got several different batters he likes, but the secret step is adding melted butter to the batter before cooking them. No butter is needed with the syrup when you do that.

And, he is particular about his biscuits too. He likes them extra crispy and brown. He hollows out part of the filling to make them a skinny biscuit. He was ahead of his time.

He always warms the plates and syrup in the microwave. He knows exactly how many seconds per plate. Thank goodness he has my mother to assist with all of these steps.

The extras, well, he’s got that figured out too. He spends about 15 minutes (total) driving all over town, to the hospital cafeteria, hotel coffee shop, and donut shop picking up his favorites from of all of these spots (bacon, sausage, donut holes, biscuits…) that are cooked and ready to serve. It’s a spread—guaranteed to hold you over for a few hours!

The first recipe I want to share is from my grandmother, better known as Mama Lil. I have her recipe box, and this one is in there. My grandfather’s name was Jesse, and she named these Hungry Jess Pancakes. They were always delicious, but I tweaked them to be even better! Instead of the oil, I do Dad’s melted butter trick. And I lightened the salt a tad (even though she survived 97 years on a highly salted diet). They will not disappoint and wonderful for dinner too on a cold, winter night!
Seeing Mama Lil’s handwriting is so comforting.

Hungry Jess Pancakes

Makes 10 pancakes

2 eggs

1 ¼ cups buttermilk

½ teaspoon salt

½ teaspoon baking soda

2 teaspoons baking powder

1 cup flour

2 tablespoons melted butter

Vegetable oil

Crack eggs into the bowl of a mixer; beat well. Add buttermilk, and mix until thoroughly combined.

In a separate bowl, combine remaining dry ingredients. Add to the buttermilk mixture; beat well. Add the melted butter. Set aside.

Heat a large nonstick skillet to medium to medium-high. Evenly coat the bottom of the skillet with vegetable oil. (I like to brush the vegetable oil onto the skillet with a basting brush.)

With a 1/3 dry measuring cup, pour batter into the skillet, making 3 pancakes at a time until batter is gone.

Keep in a warm oven on a baking sheet until remaining are cooked. Serve with warm maple syrup.

Garnish with fresh berries.

Yields 10 pancakes

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Ingredients

  • 2 eggs
  • 1 ¼ cups buttermilk
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon baking soda
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 1 cup flour
  • 2 tablespoons melted butter
  • Vegetable oil

Instructions

  1. Crack eggs into the bowl of a mixer; beat well. Add buttermilk, and mix until thoroughly combined.
  2. In a separate bowl, combine remaining dry ingredients. Add to the buttermilk mixture; beat well. Add the melted butter. Set aside.
  3. Heat a large nonstick skillet to medium to medium-high. Evenly coat the bottom of the skillet with vegetable oil. (I like to brush the vegetable oil onto the skillet with a basting brush.)
  4. With a 1/3 dry measuring cup, pour batter into the skillet, making 3 pancakes at a time until batter is gone.
  5. Keep in a warm oven on a baking sheet until remaining are cooked. Serve with warm maple syrup.
  6. Garnish with fresh berries.
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Plates are by Golden Rabbit, $16 each. Retro alarm clock, $18. Enjoy Life glass, $12, all from The Art of Simple, Seaside, Florida; 850/231-6748, theartofsimple.com. The watering can is from Shoppe, Birmingham, Alabama; 205/224-4450, shoppebham.com
Serve this for breakfast, brunch, or even dessert. It transports well and makes a wonderful gift. Thanks, Cindy, for sharing your mother’s special recipe.

Judy Bishop’s Banana Bread

Makes 2 (8 ½ x 5-inch) loaves

1 cup shortening

2 cups sugar

3 eggs

2 teaspoons vanilla

2 ¾ cups flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 teaspoon baking soda

1 teaspoon salt

1 cup buttermilk

4 ripe bananas, mashed with a fork

1 ½ cups walnuts, toasted

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

In the bowl of a mixer, combine shortening, sugar, eggs, and vanilla. Beat until smooth and creamy.

In a separate bowl, combine flour and next 3 ingredients. Add to shortening mixture, and mix thoroughly. Add buttermilk and bananas. Continue mixing until combined. Stir in walnuts.

Bake for 50 minutes.

Learn from Leslie: The nuts land where they land in the baking process. If this bothers you, then pulse the walnuts in a food processor and then add to the batter. I personally like the random, toasted pieces of walnuts throughout the bread.

I keep the knife in the pan for easy cutting access! Who could resist?
I love the combination of bacon and cheese grits. Why not just make it happen from the get-go? These grits are often requested as the “plain” grits at my house. My family prefers these over a baked grits casserole. These are also tasty under a pork chop.

Quick Creamy Cheese Grits with Brown Sugar Bacon “Spoons”

Makes 5 cups

4 ½ cups water

1 cup grits

½ teaspoon salt

3 tablespoons butter

6 to 8 slices American cheese

Salt and pepper to taste

Brown Sugar Bacon “Spoons”:

6 slices of bacon, cut in half 

1/4 cup light brown sugar

 Coarsley ground black pepper

Leslie Likes: Nueske’s Applewood Smoked Bacon

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Line a baking sheet with foil. Spray a cooling rack on both sides with cooking spray.  Place rack onto baking sheet. Cut bacon slices in half, and position on rack. Sprinkle with brown sugar and black pepper.

Bake 20 to 25 minutes until bacon is done. Loosen from rack, and allow to cool completely. These can be made ahead. 

Quick Creamy Cheese Grits:

Bring water and salt to a boil; add grits, stirring constantly. Reduce heat to medium. Cook for 5 to 7 minutes or until thickened. Add butter, cheese, salt, and pepper. Continue to cook until thick and creamy. Remove from burner, and cover.

My first attempt at making real spoon shapes. Unfortunately, they were too flimsy to be used as dippers after they were baked. But kinda cute huh?
Start every day with a good breakfast and a smile on your face! Besides, don’t they call it the “free” meal?
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. And, if you have a family recipe that you think is unique and delicious, please send it in. I would love to try it! Until next week, Leslie

Packaging Is Everything

On By Leslie Byars RegisterIn appetizers, desserts6 Comments

When I was in elementary school, I remember coming home after school and spotting a new present under the Christmas tree. My mother made all of our packages look like they came from a fancy department store. That was not an easy thing to do when you live in a town of 10,000 people. She would add ornaments, greenery, dollar store finds, well, just about anything to our gifts. I couldn’t wait to open them!

Why give just one present when you can give two?

Be creative with your wrapping this year. Spend less money on expensive ribbon and make them all unique with a package topper. It’s an easy way to personalize each gift. They can be found anywhere—dollar stores, checkout lines, even in your junk drawers! The key is lightweight and attachable.

An extra set of measuring spoons always comes in handy when cooking with wet and dry ingredients.
No man will be disappointed when he sees this cute miniature of bourbon on his package. No waste here! Bulleit Bourbon, bulleit.com
The hole in the bottom of this tiny clay pot makes it easy to attach to the package. Perfect for the gardeners in your life. Black Sheep Antiques, 336-432-0565, contact@blacksheepantiques.com
A monochromatic package can be the most elegant of all. Gift wrap by Sugar-Paper, Target, target.com. Star ornament available at The Container Store, containerstore.com
It’s nice to give an ornament with a date for the memory. This shiny gold bell gets everyone in the mood for Santa. Target, target.com
A simple gold letter dresses up a pretty red box. Box by Sugar-Paper. Both available at Target, target.com

Food Gifts

You can always tell a food gift that works—it’s eaten the first day or two. The ones that linger around until New Year’s Eve and end up in the trash, well, . . . .

My sister, Beth, better known as “Sugar” since she became a grandmother, has a foolproof, microwave praline recipe that takes the guesswork, thermometer, and mess out of the process. They are so easy to whip up and make a wonderful gift for neighbors and friends.

Anyone can make these easy microwave pralines. They are a piece of cake!

Sugar’s Pralines

Makes 2 dozen

1 pound (1 box) of light brown sugar

1 cup heavy whipping cream

1/2 cup (1 stick) butter

1 ½ cups pecan halves

 

In a large microwave-safe bowl, heat sugar and whipping cream on HIGH for 11 to 13 minutes, until hot and bubbly. (Cooking time may vary slightly with microwaves.) DO NOT LET IT BURN.

Remove from the microwave, and add butter, combining thoroughly until completely melted. (I like to cut the butter into smaller pieces, to allow it to melt quickly.) Add pecans, and stir to combine.

Learn from Leslie: I do 11 minutes in my 1200 watt microwave. 

Drop pecan mixture immediately onto wax paper with a spoon or small measuring cup.

Be sure several pecans are in each spoonful as you drop them to the wax paper. You want each praline to have several pecans.

Allow to cool completely. It may take an hour or two.

The pralines will lighten as they harden.
Poster board strips easily turn this box into an ornament-like box.
Add a raffia bow and a gift tag and they are ready to deliver. They may also be frozen if desired. Allow to come to room temperature before packaging. Gift tags from The Scribbler, scribblerpink.com

Christmas Charcuterie

I adore a printed tag. If I could label everything I own I would! Say Grace Papergoods; contact Gina Winn at 205/329-4097, Instagram @mamawinn4.

Everyone likes a good cheese plate, so I decided to add this to my friends’ and neighbors’ gifts this year. I picked three or four of my most favorite cheeses (Cowgirl Creamery’s Mt Tam Triple Cream Brie, Manchego, and Port Salut), a hard salami, several nuts, an apple, a few cornichons, and a miniature honey with dipper. I assembled on a bamboo paper plate and packaged in clear gift bag.

This is a fun project to do with your family—create an assembly line and give everyone a job.

Once you have gathered all the items, it takes only a few minutes to assemble these cheese plates.
I found the miniature honey jars and dippers on Amazon, amazon.com
Slip the plates into a clear gift bag, and tie with a ribbon. Keep refrigerated until you deliver.

Fabulous Finds, Stocking Stuffers, and Unusual Gifts

The Ugly Sweater Cookie Kit: This kit contains 10 baked cookies (chocolate and vanilla), icing, and candy sprinkles. It’s an easy activity for all ages. How ugly can you go? Trader Joe’s, $5.99. traderjoes.com
Romeo & Julienne: a wooden cutting board shaped like a book. It’s perfect for small jobs and stores upright with your cookbooks. No more digging around in a crowded cabinet. This handy board by Fred is at your fingertips whenever you need it. Smith’s Variety, Mountain Brook, Alabama, $15.99, 205-871-0841
Chocolate Passport: a colorful assortment of dark chocolate from eight different countries, neatly backed in a passport-like box. It’s a great stocking stuffer or gift for the chocolate lover. Trader Joe’s, $9.99, traderjoes.com
Orange and lemon juicers: one of the most used gadgets in my kitchen. I use them almost every day. Nothing could be easier than juicing with either one of these. I love how it contains all the seeds and gets the maximum amount of juice out of every piece of fruit. The Cook Store of Mountain Brook, $12, 205/879-5277
Rainbow of Honey: From biscuits to a cheese plate, you will have it covered with this 6-pack of flavored honey. The gift pack comes with a bottle each: clover, sunflower, orange blossom, eucalyptus, macadamia, and mimosa. Trader Joe’s, $9.99, traderjoes.com
Karaoke Bluetooth Microphone: Connect, play, and sing with this wireless microphone and hi-fi speaker that is always party ready. It’s easy to recharge with the included cable and compatible with Android and Apple. $39.99, The Container Store, containerstore.com
Leslie’s Party Diaries: the perfect hostess, wedding, birthday, Christmas, or happy gift for the cooks and entertainers in your life. $39 plus tax. lesliespartydiaries.com

A Customized Creation 

Create your own signature paper at Spoonflower.com. $60 per (12 foot by 24 inch) roll. Any image or photograph can be uploaded and made into wallpaper.
The image can be repeated in a variety of sizes.
The roll will last a lifetime. Let it be your signature paper. It works nicely under a dessert, cheese plate, or a plate of cookies for a gift.

Now, take a deep breath and relax. You still have plenty of time to get everything done before the big day.

’tis the season!
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie