It’s a Lifestyle, Not a Diet

I’ve learned a lot in the past eight weeks, thanks to Scarlet Kanaday, a wellness nutritionist at St. Vincent’s Hospital. Being fairly thin all my life (until my 50s), I never dreamed I would EVER put on unwanted pounds. Well, I was wrong. The day after my 50th birthday, it all started.

For the last four years I’ve tried personal trainers, My Fitness Pal, starving myself, well, just about everything, and nothing worked. But after meeting Scarlet I realized I was going about it all wrong!

Scarlet planned a diet geared toward my body type and medications. It gave me peace of mind knowing that she had all of my blood work and other test results from my annual checkup to refer to also. I was in good hands, plus I adore her AND she loves to cook!

Meet Scarlet
Health and Wellness Director at Birmingham Obstetrics and Gynecology, Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, hlweightloss@birminghamobgyn.com, 205/271-5650

Without giving away all of Scarlet’s secrets, I will share that there is a magic formula to weight loss: You need to fuel your body with the correct foods, and that includes healthy fats too! And, the best part about dieting with Scarlet was I was NEVER hungry. In fact, I’ve never been able to eat so much!

Scarlet’s Top 5 Healthy Fats

  • Avocado
  • Olives
  • Olive oil
  • Half & Half or Heavy Cream
  • Butter
  • BONUS FAT: Bacon

Scarlet also gave me recipes to try and a lot of flavorful ideas to help me enjoy cooking and dieting at the same time.

Most people may think that cooking and dieting don’t go hand in hand, but there are plenty of recipes that not only taste delicious but keep you on your diet track.

I found this recipe online at Chelsea’s Messy Apron blog. I made a few slight changes, but the recipe is adapted from hers. Be sure to check out her blog, too; it’s full of yummy-looking recipes that I can’t wait to try.

Jon says this recipe is one of the best meals I’ve ever made.

Now, let’s start cooking this Scarlet-approved recipe! I’ve made it three times in the last month. I took her advice last night and served it with cauliflower rice. It was delicious. The flavorful sauce “hid” that it wasn’t regular rice. (This photo was taken before with Basmati rice.)

This foolproof recipe can be made ahead and reheated, frozen, or prepared in the moment. I can’t wait to serve this unexpected dish at my next football gathering!

Coconut Chicken Curry

Serves 4

3 tablespoons coconut oil, separated

½ medium yellow onion, diced

3 cloves minced garlic

2 tablespoons finely minced ginger

2 teaspoons yellow curry powder

3 tablespoons red curry paste

2 teaspoons ground coriander

½ large red bell pepper

½ large green bell pepper

1 ½ pounds chicken breast tenders, cut into 1-inch pieces

Kosher salt and freshly cracked pepper

1 can full fat coconut milk (NOT lite)

1 tablespoon lime juice

1 to 2 tablespoons brown sugar or Splenda Brown Sugar Blend*

1 teaspoon fish sauce, optional

¼ cup cilantro and/or basil, diced

Cooked basmati rice, brown rice, or cauliflower rice along with additional lime wedges

Optional: chopped peanuts or cashews

*If using Splenda Brown Sugar Blend (which I did), cut the amount by half.

Start by prepping ingredients: Dice onion, and mince the garlic and ginger. Peel the ginger with a spoon or vegetable peeler, and then finely mince it. Thinly slice the bell peppers into long vertical strips, and then cut those strips in half horizontally. 

Heat 2 tablespoons coconut oil in a large deep skillet over medium-high heat. Add the onion, and sauté for 3 to 5 minutes or until the onions are beginning to get golden. Add the garlic and ginger. Stir to coat everything with the oil. Lower the heat to low, and add the curry powder, red curry paste, and coriander. Stir often for 2 to 3 minutes or until lightly toasted and fragrant. 

Return the heat to medium-high. Add the remaining 1 tablespoon coconut oil and the peppers. Stir for 1 to 2 minutes, and then add the bite-size pieces of chicken. Add salt and pepper to taste. (I add 1 teaspoon salt and ½ teaspoon pepper.) Cook, stirring often for about 4 to 5 minutes or until the chicken is browned on both sides, but not cooked through.

Pour in the coconut milk, lime juice, and brown sugar to taste (I start with just 1 tablespoon.) Stir until chicken is cooked through and curry is slightly thickened. Stir in fish sauce if desired. 

Serve over rice. Garnish individual bowls with cilantro, basil, and crushed peanuts or cashews. Serve with additional lime wedges if desired.

Learn from Leslie: For a thicker sauce, remove 1 to 2 tablespoons of the sauce to a small bowl and, with a fork, whisk in 1 tablespoon cornstarch until smooth. Whisk this mixture into the curry. 


I like to use my ice-cream scoop to premeasure rice servings. It makes a pretty presentation too.
Garnish with chopped peanuts or cashews. To quickly crush, place nuts in a ziplock bag and crush away with a heavy object!

My 10 Diet Saviors

1. Tuna salad on heirloom tomatoes

2. Cashew nuts

3. Applewood Smoked Bacon

4. Grilled Pork Chop and any green vegetable

5. Penzey’s Taco Seasoning

6. Kabobs

7. Coleslaw with everything

8. Condiments such as real mayo, half-n-half, and aged Balsamic vinegar

9. Hershey Dark Chocolate Kisses

10. Tequila Soda with a lime

Fabulous Finds

While dining in Dallas last May, I ran across these adorable chopstick rests. Everyone had one at their place. I was so excited when I found out they could be purchased! All proceeds benefit the animal shelter in Carrollton, Texas, Operation Kindness. $3 each plus tax, Shinsei, shinseirestaurant.com, 214/352-0005
For the cat lovers…
And dog lovers too.
I’m obsessed with miniature anything! When I ran across this set of Dim Sum steamers at Whole Foods the other day, I had to purchase them. They make a unique side dish container to go with anything. I can’t wait to steam a cupcake in one, and give as a party favor at my next gathering! They would also make a special place card. The possibilities are endless. Available at Whole Foods, $13.99 for a set of two, wholefoods.com
If you are looking for an assortment of tabletop items at a very reasonable price, check out the clearance sales at Zarahome.com. You’ll be surprised what you can find for next to nothing. zarahome.com
A wonderful-tasting diet substitute for brown sugar. Give it a try in baking, on oatmeal, or on a sweet potato. Available at most grocery stores, $4.99 per 1 pound bag, Splenda.com
Another low-calorie tasty bite to add to your nibble tray are these Chili Garlic Coated Sriracha Peas. Available at World Market, worldmarket.com

Last but not least, a festive party idea…

At my next party, I’m going to set up a garnish station like this one I recently saw at the Baccarat Hotel in New York City. It’s guaranteed to impress your guests and take every cocktail over the top.

And, before I sign off…

Here’s a quick wrap-up of what I have learned in the last few weeks while dieting with Scarlet. You CAN make good choices at home or eating out, and traveling, so don’t let that stop you from doing anything you want to do. I managed to lose 12 pounds and several inches eating out 3 to 4 times a week with cocktails (not per Scarlet’s advice). Just be very good at all the other meals—and exercise.

Keeping a food journal may sound tedious, but it quickly becomes part of your daily routine.

Having a wellness instructor like Scarlet or a coach to hold you accountable really helps get the job done. I quickly learned it’s not calorie for calorie. Food is a science. I’m eating a lot more than I was and still losing weight, I start my day with half-and-half in my coffee instead of skim milk. That’s reason enough alone!

Documenting even the “slip-ups,” as Scarlet calls them, will keep them at a minimum and make you really think twice.

So here’s to fall, jean weather, comforting foods, football, and all the rest that goes along with this fabulous time of year.

Enjoy life—that’s what it’s all about. See you next time. Leslie xoxox