Home Is Where Your China Is

Welcome to the holidays.

If you are one of those people who have been saving your fine china and crystal for a special occasion—well, this is it.

The holidays are the optimum time to use all your beautiful things and set a gorgeous table. It’s meant to be used!

I opted for a simple, elegant, family friendly menu this post to give you plenty of time to polish the silver and make a memory or two for your loved ones.

“Get the Goo Gone out. We are taking the stickers off the crystal!”

I went around and around trying to decide the best meat option for the main course. I thought about prime rib, lamb, steaks, but I always came back to Jon’s Foolproof Beef Tenderloin from Leslie’s Party Diaries. It is sincerely foolproof and it frees up the oven for the unbelievable Mock Cheese Soufflé—which is assembled the day before. How much easier can it get? So let’s get started!

Jon’s Foolproof Beef Tenderloin

Serves 10 to 12 

1 (6- to 7-pound) beef tenderloin, trimmed

Olive oil

Kosher salt and coarsely ground pepper

3 to 4 tablespoons Montreal Seasoning, optional

12 (6-inch) sprigs rosemary

Heavy-duty aluminum foil

Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce

Place beef tenderloin on a large piece of plastic wrap on a baking sheet. Coat completely with olive oil, Montreal Seasoning, salt, and pepper; rub into meat on all sides. Cover with sprigs of rosemary; wrap tightly in plastic wrap. Chill 2 hours or overnight.

Allow beef to come to room temperature before cooking.

Light one side of gas grill, heating to 400° to 450° (high) heat; leave other side unlit. Sear tenderloin over heated side of grill for 3 to 4 minutes on each side; transfer to unlit side, and cook, covered with grill lid, 10 to 12 minutes on each side, depending on the thickness of the tenderloin. (If using a charcoal grill, do the same with the hot coal side and the opposite side without coals.)

Remove from grill, and wrap tenderloin in 6 large pieces of heavy-duty aluminum foil (one at a time); roll up foil-wrapped tenderloin in a heavy beach towel. Let rest for 3 hours at room temperature.

Serve with Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce.

Be sure to save these rosemary sprigs from the marinade for the cooking process.
Equal parts of sour cream and horseradish give this quick sauce a ton of heat and flavor.

“Garnish galore!”

Set up a garnish station. All meats will greatly improve in appearance when decorated with herbs and assorted seasonal fruits and berries. Be creative!

Horseradish and Sour Cream Sauce

Makes approx. 1 cup

 

4 tablespoons horseradish

4 tablespoons sour cream

1 teaspoon sugar

¼ teaspoon black pepper

½ teaspoon salt, or more to taste

2 teaspoons cider vinegar

Combine all ingredients. Store in refrigerator until ready to use. This can be done up to three days in advance. (This recipe can easily be doubled for a large crowd.)

Although the soufflé will deflate slightly after it’s taken out of the oven, it will not disappoint. In fact, it heats up beautifully in the microwave the next day, if there are any leftovers.

 Mock Cheese Soufflé

Serves 8

4 slices white sandwich bread, crusts removed

2 to 3 tablespoons softened butter, plus extra for greasing dish

4 eggs

2 cups whole milk

1 teaspoon salt

¼ teaspoon black pepper

¼ teaspoon dry mustard

¼ teaspoon hot sauce

2 cups grated sharp Cheddar cheese

Dash paprika

Spread softened butter on both sides of the bread; cut into 1-inch cubes.

In a medium bowl, combine eggs and next 5 ingredients, whisking to combine.

In a buttered 1 ½-quart baking dish, layer bread then cheese, repeating twice. Pour in milk mixture, and top with paprika. Cover and refrigerate overnight.

Bake in a water bath at 300 degrees for 1½ hours.

Learn from Leslie: To make a water bath, use a baking dish slightly larger than the one used for baking Mock Cheese Soufflé. Fill water in larger dish to about 1 to 1 1/2 inches. Put smaller dish in larger dish, and bake as directed.

“This is a nice change from a potato or grits side dish.”

This effortless impressive mock soufflé is a piece of cake since it is assembled the day before.

Yields 8 Servings

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Ingredients

  • 4 slices white sandwich bread, crusts removed
  • 2 to 3 tablespoons softened butter, plus extra for greasing dish
  • 4 eggs
  • 2 cups whole milk
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • ¼ teaspoon black pepper
  • ¼ teaspoon dry mustard
  • ¼ teaspoon hot sauce
  • 2 cups grated sharp Cheddar cheese
  • Dash paprika

Instructions

  1. Spread softened butter on both sides of the bread; cut into 1-inch cubes.
  2. In a medium bowl, combine eggs and next 5 ingredients, whisking to combine.
  3. In a buttered 1 ½-quart baking dish, layer bread then cheese, repeating twice. Pour in milk mixture, and top with paprika. Cover and refrigerate overnight.
  4. Bake in a water bath at 300 degrees for 1½ hours.
  5. Learn from Leslie: To make a water bath, use a baking dish slightly larger than the one used for baking Mock Cheese Soufflé. Fill water in larger dish to about 1 to 1 1/2 inches. Put smaller dish in larger dish, and bake as directed.
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Everyone likes green beans. This crowd-pleasing recipe will elimate any extra cooking for the children in your family.

Holiday Haricot Verts

Serves 8 to 10

1 ½ pounds fresh haricot verts (thin French green beans)

2 tablespoons olive oil

2 tablespoons butter

3 garlic cloves, sliced

2 shallots, thinly sliced

1 red pepper, sliced into strips

1 orange pepper, sliced into strips

Zest from 1 lemon

1 teaspoon black pepper

½ to 1 teaspoon salt

In a medium-size Dutch oven blanch trimmed beans in a pot of boiling water for 4 to 5 minutes or until tender. Immediately place cooked beans in a bowl of ice water. Allow to cool; then place on a paper towel to dry.

Heat oil and butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add garlic and shallots, and cook 2 to 3 minutes. Add peppers and remaining ingredients. Sauté until thoroughly heated. Serve immediately.

Learn from Leslie: The beans can be blanched a day or two in advance. The peppers can be cut in advance too. This recipe also reheats beautifully.

Parmesan Puff Pastry Breadsticks

Makes approx. 22

1 (17.3-ounce) box puff pastry

1 egg

1 tablespoon water

Flour, for dusting

1½ cups shredded Parmesan

1 teaspoon kosher salt

Freshly ground black pepper

Parchment paper

Allow the puff pastry to thaw overnight in the refrigerator, or follow counter thawing directions on package.

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Beat egg and water in a small bowl.

Place puff pastry one sheet at a time, onto lightly floured surface, rolling it to be slightly bigger, about 10 by 12 inches. Brush pastry with egg mixture, covering the entire surface. Top with half of the Parmesan and salt, then sprinkle with freshly ground black pepper. Gently press the cheese into the pastry with your fingers.

Cut into ¾-inch to 1-inch strips. (I use a pastry wheel, but a pizza cutter will work too.) Twist each strip several times, and place on parchment-lined baking sheet. Bake 10 to 15 minutes or until lightly browned. Remove from the oven, turn each breadstick, and bake another minute or two.

“Making your own breadsticks eliminates a last minute trip to the bakery and fighting holiday traffic!”

Don’t dilly-dally while you are making these. The dough is easiest to work with while it is cold.

Frozen Brandy Alexander

Yield: 1 serving

1 cup vanilla ice cream

1 ½ ounces brandy

¾ ounce white crème de cacao

White chocolate curls for garnish, optional

Place ice cream, brandy, and crème de cacao in a blender, and process until smooth. Top with white chocolate curls, and serve immediately.

Learn from Leslie: I use a vegetable peeler to make the pretty little chocolate curls. Look for a good-quality chocolate bar too. These can also be made ahead and kept in the freezer. Believe me—they will not freeze.

“These are the consistency of eggnog, which makes it easy to sip through a pretty straw.”

All you need for the garnish is one good quality white chocolate bar and a vegetable peeler.
Pick up an assortment of store-bought cookies to pass.

“These adorable matchbooks are a two-for-one-special. They serve as the place card and a party favor.”

Add the names with a simple tag made on a printer. Tie them on with waxed thread. Available at shoppebham.com, $4.50 each
I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie

Will you accept this rose?

Staying at home may not be such a bad idea!

I’m always torn when it comes to going out to dinner on Valentine’s, or staying in and cooking a special meal. I prefer the unabbreviated menu at my favorite restaurants, and some limit your choices that evening.

When making a list of pros and cons, it is an even tie. So, here is a wonderful, yummy option for you and your entire family if you find yourself at home this year.

Either way it’s a win-win!
Artwork by my mother, Alice. It was her test run before she hit the canvas. It’s such a treasure!

V is not just for Valentine’s.

One pro of eating in, you can really splurge on the Champagne. veuveclicquot.com
Family style never looked so inviting. Baking dish by Revol, The Cupboard, shopthecupboard.com

Foolproof Baked Shrimp over Pasta

Serves 4 to 6

2 pounds medium shrimp, peeled and deveined, tails removed

¼ cup olive oil

¼ cup chopped parsley

4 cloves garlic, minced

½ teaspoon red pepper flakes

¼ cup butter, melted

¼ cup Panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)

½ cup Parmesan, freshly grated

8 ounces of thin spaghetti, cooked

Hot French bread

It takes only a few minutes to get the ingredients prepped, especially if you find the medium-size shrimp already peeled and deveined.

Preheat oven to 300 degrees.

Place shrimp in a medium-size bowl. Combine next 4 ingredients in a small bowl; pour over shrimp, and toss to coat.

Evenly arrange shrimp in a single layer in a 2-quart baking dish. Cover with foil, and bake 15 minutes. Remove from oven, turn shrimp over, and drizzle with melted butter. Sprinkle with Panko and Parmesan cheese.

Here is what the shrimp mixture will look like before you cover with foil.

Bake uncovered 10 to 15 more minutes. Broil for 1 to 2 minutes for a browner top, if desired. Serve over pasta family style with French bread.

You will not want to be more than an arm’s reach of this baking dish!

Learn from Leslie: Be sure to have lots of hot, crusty French bread. The dipping in the butter and juices is the best part! Serve with a simple green vegetable or salad.

I can taste it now.

Yields 4 to 6 servings

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Ingredients

  • 2 pounds medium shrimp, peeled and deveined, tails removed
  • ¼ cup olive oil
  • ¼ cup chopped parsley
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • ½ teaspoon red pepper flakes
  • ¼ cup butter, melted
  • ¼ cup Panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)
  • ½ cup Parmesan, freshly grated
  • 8 ounces of thin spaghetti, cooked
  • Hot French bread

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 300 degrees.
  2. Place shrimp in a medium-size bowl. Combine next 4 ingredients in a small bowl; pour over shrimp, and toss to coat.
  3. Evenly arrange shrimp in a single layer in a 2-quart baking dish. Cover with foil, and bake 15 minutes.
  4. Remove from oven, turn shrimp over, and drizzle with melted butter. Sprinkle with Panko and Parmesan cheese.
  5. Bake uncovered 10 to 15 more minutes. Broil for 1 to 2 minutes for a browner top, if desired. Serve over pasta family style with French bread.
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Growing up, Valentine’s Day was one of my favorite holidays. And it still is! China: ‘Rothschild Bird’ by Herend, herendusa.com; Sterling silver: ‘Lily’ by Gorham, lifetimesterling.com

For the Kids

Let’s be honest, when you are making sugar cookies all you really want to do is decorate them. Why waste time making them from scratch, letting the dough chill, and prolonging the fun.

The secret is out—Betty Crocker Sugar Cookie Mix. Simply add 1 stick of butter, 1 egg, and 3 tablespoons of flour for cookie-cutter style. It is easy as pie. No sticking to the counter or rolling pin. bettycrocker.com

Three-Ingredient Icing

Powdered sugar

Whole milk

Food coloring

Place powdered sugar in a small bowl or ramekin. Add milk 1 teaspoon at a time until the desired consistency. Go slowly! It does not take much. Use food coloring to make as many colors as you would like. Ice cookies and decorate with sprinkles. Allow to dry completely.

It doesn’t take but a few sprinkles to make these special.
My favorite sprinkles are made especially for Williams-Sonoma by Beautiful Briny Sea, Super Amazing Dessert Sprinkle Mix, $19.95 (15-ounce) jar, Williams-Sonoma, williams-somoma.com

Hopes and Dreams Garland Kit

Another clever idea to entertain the kids, or adults for that matter, is this ribbon garland kit from Stellar, a cute tweens shop, in Rosemary Beach, Florida. I actually brought this to my daughter Sallie as a gift, but couldn’t wait to do it myself!

The kit includes a colorful 5-foot rope and lots of precut ribbon pieces. Stellar, Rosemary Beach, Florida, $25, 850/231-0110, gigistellartweens.com
The perfect rainy-day project.

The “icing on the cookie” is a coffee bar full of miniatures.

Valentine’s Coffee Bar

To top off the evening, set up a coffee bar for the adults. There is no need to buy large bottles of different liquors—pick up an assortment of miniatures and place them in a cute basket. It feels as special as getting the mini jelly from a room service tray. Serve with whipped cream and, of course, the cookies!

Irish Coffee anyone?
It’s like passing the bread basket at dinner!
Let the kids pass the cookies.
As much as I love to cook, I’m a prop stylist at heart. I love a collection of pretty things. As I always used to say when I worked at Southern Living

Pretty things make pretty pictures.

I would love to hear from you. Don’t be shy about making comments or asking questions. I love getting mail! Leslie