The Diet Contest

On February 19, 2019February 19, 2019 By Leslie Byars RegisterIn Ask Leslie, breads & pastas, Buy the Book, For the Kids, mains, sides, The Parties, The Recipes9 Comments

The world is in a diet contest. Every time I go out to eat, it’s a contest to see who can order the healthiest, lightest thing on the menu. Sometimes I like to throw a curveball and order the burger and fries. Everyone at the table eats more of my fries than I do. It makes me laugh.

The first thing I thought of is how did my grandmother Mama Lil live to be 97 eating a sausage biscuit almost every day? And how did Jon’s grandmother Mother live to be 107—correction 107 1/2—without following any of the new dietary restrictions and recommendations? Is it good genes? Sure, that can’t hurt, but my opinion is keeping everything in moderation and minding portion control is also a good diet to follow too.

“If there is such a thing as a light and creamy pasta—well this is it!”

One way to make a pasta dish healthier is not to eat as much. Or you can substitute fresh vegetables for half to satisfy your pasta cravings and get your veggies in too.

I’d rather eat half of what I really want than all of what I don’t!

This pasta dish has endless possibilities. Add more vegetables such as asparagus or zucchini or a handful of cooked shrimp. It is also delicious with only the fresh peas and basil as a meatless option.

Pasta with Three P’s—Pasta, Peas, and Pancetta

Serves 4 as a main, 6 as a side

8 ounces pancetta

8 ounces seashells pasta

2 tablespoons unsalted butter

2 to 3 shallots, finely chopped

¼ cup dry white wine

½ cup low-sodium chicken broth

1 ½ cups fresh green peas, or frozen may be substituted

½ teaspoon salt

8 ounces crème fraîche

Zest of 1 lemon

¼ cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese, extra for garnish

Fresh herbs for garnish such as basil, mint, and dill

Brown pancetta in a medium-size nonstick skillet; remove and drain on a paper towel. Wipe skillet out completely.

Cook pasta in a large pot of salted water. While pasta cooks, melt butter in nonstick skillet over medium heat; add shallots, and cook about 3 minutes. Add the wine, and cook until reduced by one third and slightly syrupy.

When the pasta is almost done, add the broth and peas to the skillet. Sprinkle with salt, and cook until peas are just tender. Remove pan from the heat, and stir in crème fraîche.

Add cooked pasta to skillet, and toss thoroughly to coat. Sprinkle with zest, cheese, pancetta, and fresh basil. Serve immediately in warm bowls.

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Serves Serves 4 as a main, 6 as a side

Pasta with Three P’s—Pasta, Peas, and Pancetta

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Ingredients

8 ounces pancetta
8 ounces sea shells pasta
2 tablespoons unsalted butter
2 to 3 shallots, finely chopped
¼ cup dry white wine
½ cup low-sodium chicken broth
1 ½ cups fresh green peas, or frozen may be substituted
½ teaspoon salt
8 ounces crème fraîche
Zest of 1 lemon
¼ cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese, extra for garnish
Fresh herbs for garnish such as basil, mint, and dill

Instructions

Brown pancetta in a medium-size nonstick skillet; remove and drain on a paper towel. Wipe skillet out completely.
Cook pasta in a large pot of salted water. While pasta cooks, melt butter in nonstick skillet over medium heat; add shallots, and cook about 3 minutes. Add the wine, and cook until reduced by one third and slightly syrupy.
When the pasta is almost done, add the broth and peas to the skillet. Sprinkle with salt, and cook until peas are just tender. Remove pan from the heat, and stir in crème fraîche.
Add cooked pasta to skillet, and toss thoroughly to coat. Sprinkle with zest, cheese, pancetta, and fresh basil. Serve immediately in warm bowls.

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You can find fresh peas most of the time at Trader Joe’s for under $3.

crème fraîche: matured, thickened cream that has a slightly tangy, nutty flavor and velvety rich texture.

Crème fraîche is available at most grocery stores. Read below for how to make it yourself for less.

Learn from Leslie: To make your own crème fraîche, combine 1 cup whipping cream and 2 tablespoons buttermilk in a glass container. Cover and let stand at room temperature for 8 to 24 hours, until very thick. Stir well, cover, and refrigerate for up to 10 days.

Pasta Substitutions…hmmm

Of course you can always substitute your favorite whole wheat or vegetable pasta in any of my recipes, but I test only with the real stuff. I prefer to entertain with it too because it is much easier to cook perfectly, and in my opinion it tastes a lot better.

Plate from Roman and Williams Guild NYC, 53 Howard Street, New York, NY 10013, 212/852-9099, rwguild .com

Quote of the Day

Life itself is the proper binge.
Julia Child

Have a great week! Only a few more weeks until daylight savings time and white jeans. I can’t wait. I live for spring and summer.

I’d love to hear from you too. Send me a message below about anything!

See ya’ll next time! Have a great week. Leslie xoxox

Luscious Caramel Tarts

On January 27, 2019January 26, 2019 By Leslie Byars RegisterIn brunch, Buy the Book, desserts, For the Kids, The Parties, The Recipes3 Comments

I rarely enter another person’s home empty-handed. I’m from a family of gift givers. We don’t miss an opportunity to put a bow on anything, whether it’s a hostess gift, house gift, bottle of wine, or just because. So you can imagine Valentine’s is no exception. When I was growing up, I remember my mother always had a gift sitting on the kitchen table when I came to breakfast on Valentine’s Day. It was usually pink or red. Once I got a pair of red pants! I loved them.

So I try to carry on the tradition whether it’s for Valentine’s or a friend who’s extended a dinner invite, because it’s fun and it takes very little effort compared to the energy your host has exerted to bring you an evening of relaxing dining pleasure. It’s the least I can do.

And if occasionally time doesn’t allow for a trip to a store, I buy multiples of my favorite hostess gifts and always have them ready to go. So, there’s no excuse not to be prepared or to thank the host.

As old as you may be, you never outgrow the thrill of receiving a gift—small or large.

One of the main reasons I’m rarely “hands free” when I’m invited somewhere is because I’ve done my homework. I always have brown craft boxes, raffia, ribbons, and printed gift tags on hand. With that in the house, it requires only a five-minute stop to pick up a special bloom or thought. I always want my gift to be personal and intentional.

When an invitation reads “no gifts,” the first thing I do is grab my car keys and head to the store to look for something thoughtful and special. I may be the only person who brings a gift, so why not be the favorite guest?

One simple gift idea is as easy as one little primrose. $3.99 each, **oakstreetgardenshop.com**

Also in this post I wanted to include a few Valentine gift ideas for all ages. Why not? Life is short. So be sure to keep reading to find out some of my favorites.

But before we get to that, I have to share one of my mother’s recipes that I have been saving for this post. Many of you who know me well, know that desserts are not my strongest suit. So when I find one that is this delicious and foolproof, I have to share.

If I can make it, anyone can!

The crusts can be made in advance and frozen until you need them. The caramel sauce and freshly whipped cream can be done several hours in advance too. This is not as intimidating as it looks. Read on.

Luscious Caramel Tarts

Makes 12 tarts

4 egg yolks

2 cups light brown sugar, plus extra for garnish

¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons flour

2 cups cold water

1 ½ tablespoons butter

1 ½ teaspoons vanilla

12 tart shells (recipe follows)

Unsweetened freshly whipped cream

Beat egg yolks slightly. Combine brown sugar and flour in a small bowl; add to egg yolks. Place in a heavy-duty medium-size saucepan or double boiler, and gradually add water in a slow, steady stream, whisking continuously until thoroughly combined. Cook until thickened, stirring frequently, for about 15 minutes. Add butter and vanilla, stirring until blended. Remove from the heat; cover and keep warm until ready to serve. The filling will thicken as it cools.

Serve in tart shells topped with unsweetened whipped cream and brown sugar.

Learn from Leslie: The filling can be gently rewarmed if made in advance. Notice I said gently.

For the crust:

3 cups sifted all-purpose flour

1 1/2 teaspoon salt

1 cup chilled shortening (such as Crisco)

Ice water

Mini foil pie pans (about 3 1/4 inches across)

Parchment paper

Combine sifted flour and salt in a medium bowl. Cut in shortening with a pastry blender until mixture is crumbly. Add ice water, 1 tablespoon at a time, until ingredients are just moistened (about 7 to 10 tablespoons); gently shape dough into two flat disks.

Learn from Leslie: Do not skip the sifting step. If you do, it will be too much flour for this recipe.

Preheat oven to 475 degrees.

Roll each disk to ¼-inch thickness on a lightly floured surface. Using a 4″ plate or ramekin, cut out 6 circles. Place into foil pans, fluting the edges. Repeat with remaining dough. Pierce the dough with the tines of a fork several times to prevent bubbles. Bake 7 to 10 minutes until golden brown, watching closely.

Use anything you have in the kitchen to make the 4-inch circles. I like to divide the dough in half before rolling it out—it is much easier to manage. You will be able to get 6 circles from each half. Feel free to use a store-bought dough, but to me the slight saltiness of my homemade crust when combined with the sweet caramel sauce takes these over the top.

I reuse these disposable foil pans each time I make these. They measure about 3 1/4 inches across.

Pierce with the tines of a fork in a few places. Bake them on a parchment-lined baking sheet for uniform baking. When cool, remove from pan and store in an airtight container or freeze until ready to use.

Arrange on a pedestal or serving tray. They look so pretty sitting at the end of a buffet for all to anticipate. At time of serving, fill each tart with warm caramel sauce, top with freshly whipped cream, and sprinkle with brown sugar or colorful sprinkles.

Use the dough scraps to make a decorative topper to add to the freshly whipped cream.

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Yields 12 Tarts

Luscious Caramel Tarts

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Ingredients

4 egg yolks
2 cups light brown sugar, plus extra for garnish
¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons flour
2 cups cold water
1 ½ tablespoons butter
1 ½ teaspoons vanilla
12 tart shells (recipe follows)
Unsweetened freshly whipped cream

Tart Shells

3 cups sifted all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoon salt
1 cup chilled shortening (such as Crisco)
Ice water
Mini foil pie pans (about 3 1/4 inches across)
Parchment paper

Instructions

Filling

Beat egg yolks slightly.
Combine brown sugar and flour in a small bowl; add to egg yolks.
Place in a heavy-duty medium-size saucepan or double boiler, and gradually add water in a slow, steady stream, whisking continuously until thoroughly combined.
Cook until thickened, stirring frequently, for about 15 minutes.
Add butter and vanilla, stirring until blended.
Remove from the heat; cover and keep warm until ready to serve. The filling will thicken as it cools.

Crust

Combine sifted flour and salt in a medium bowl.
Cut in shortening with a pastry blender until mixture is crumbly.
Add ice water, 1 tablespoon at a time, until ingredients are just moistened (about 7 to 10 tablespoons)
Gently shape dough into two flat disks.
Preheat oven to 475 degrees.
Roll each disk to ¼-inch thickness on a lightly floured surface.
Using a 4" plate or ramekin, cut out 6 circles from each disk.
Place into foil pans, fluting the edges. Repeat with remaining dough.
Pierce the dough with the tines of a fork several times to prevent bubbles. Bake 7 to 10 minutes until golden brown, watching closely.

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Quote for the Day

Promises and pie crust are meant to be broken.
Jonathan Swift

For the Kids

Yes, you are not seeing things—these cute mini waffles are pink! Add 8 to 10 drops of red food coloring to your favorite batter and you’ll be seeing pink.

The most sought-after Secret Santa gift at my house between my 20-year-olds, this mini waffle iron by Dash is guaranteed to make anyone’s Valentine’s Day.

This cutie is available in several colors at Bed Bath and Beyond for $9.99, **bedbathbeyond.com**

Fashionable Valentine Finds

Who can resist a cheap thrill? Thanks to Connie Tomlinson for telling me about these fabulous stemless, disposable (but reusable) champagne flutes. They are too pretty to toss. Made by Tossware, $11.97 for 12 (9-ounce) flutes, **amazon.com** (Prime). This “wine on a dime” German sparkling wine is quite refreshing for a quick toast or a large crowd. The color is fantastic. Schloss Biebrich Rosé Sekt Sparkling Wine, $5.99, available at Trader Joe’s. **traderjoes.com**

For the gardener in your life, this spade is almost too pretty to use! $69, **gardenglory.com**

I was blown away by the packaging of this adorable handbag shaped sandwich maker! Who could resist being greeted with “Hello gorgeous” inside the box lid? This is a prize.

In less than 5 minutes, from start to finish, I was eating a company-worthy grilled cheese. This is an ideal gift for your fashionable friends of all ages. Kitchen Couture by Dash, available in several colors, $23.99, **bedbathbeyond.com**

One last Valentine idea…**Leslie’s Party Diaries**! $39 plus tax/shipping. Order by the February 7th to ensure Valentine delivery. Happy to personalize too! **lesliespartydiaries.com**

Emergency Dessert

Dessert, check. No prep here! Unwrap and serve. Perfect for your chocolate lover friends.

Keep a stash of gourmet, high-quality chocolate bars on hand for a quick emergency dessert. Simply unwrap and place on a cute plate with a paring knife and let your guest chisel away! That’s all people really want most of the time. Fresh Market has a nice selection ranging from $3 to $8. How easy is that?

On a final note…

I have a confession to make. I have not written my thank-you notes yet for my Christmas or birthday gifts! This is not like me. I normally really do practice what I preach, but for some reason this year I’m having a hard time getting motivated to thank all of my favorite people for their lovely, thoughtful gifts.

I do truly believe that it’s never too late to thank anyone for anything—so now that it’s almost February, I’ve decided to send my thank-you notes in Valentine form. This is a first! So hopefully a hand-painted watercolor will help pardon my tardiness.

PLEASE be sure to try the caramel tarts. They are a **DELICIOUS** ending to any meal, and they are beautiful!

Well, I guess this is a wrap…until next time. Off to mail my Valentine thank-yous! Happy Valentine’s Day! Leslie xoxox

P.S. Be sure to follow me on Instagram @lesliespartydiaries

Will you accept this rose?

On February 7, 2018January 11, 2019 By Leslie Byars RegisterIn beverages, breads & pastas, desserts, For the Kids, mains, The Parties, The Recipes3 Comments

Staying at home may not be such a bad idea!

I’m always torn when it comes to going out to dinner on Valentine’s, or staying in and cooking a special meal. I prefer the unabbreviated menu at my favorite restaurants, and some limit your choices that evening.

When making a list of pros and cons, it is an even tie. So, here is a wonderful, yummy option for you and your entire family if you find yourself at home this year.

Artwork by my mother, Alice. It was her test run before she hit the canvas. It’s such a treasure!

V is not just for Valentine’s.

One pro of eating in, you can really splurge on the Champagne. veuveclicquot.com

Family style never looked so inviting. Baking dish by Revol, The Cupboard, shopthecupboard.com

Foolproof Baked Shrimp over Pasta

Serves 4 to 6

2 pounds medium shrimp, peeled and deveined, tails removed

¼ cup olive oil

¼ cup chopped parsley

4 cloves garlic, minced

½ teaspoon red pepper flakes

¼ cup butter, melted

¼ cup Panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)

½ cup Parmesan, freshly grated

8 ounces of thin spaghetti, cooked

Hot French bread

It takes only a few minutes to get the ingredients prepped, especially if you find the medium-size shrimp already peeled and deveined.

Preheat oven to 300 degrees.

Place shrimp in a medium-size bowl. Combine next 4 ingredients in a small bowl; pour over shrimp, and toss to coat.

Evenly arrange shrimp in a single layer in a 2-quart baking dish. Cover with foil, and bake 15 minutes. Remove from oven, turn shrimp over, and drizzle with melted butter. Sprinkle with Panko and Parmesan cheese.

Here is what the shrimp mixture will look like before you cover with foil.

Bake uncovered 10 to 15 more minutes. Broil for 1 to 2 minutes for a browner top, if desired. Serve over pasta family style with French bread.

You will not want to be more than an arm’s reach of this baking dish!

Learn from Leslie: Be sure to have lots of hot, crusty French bread. The dipping in the butter and juices is the best part! Serve with a simple green vegetable or salad.

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Yields 4 to 6 servings

Foolproof Baked Shrimp Over Pasta

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Ingredients

2 pounds medium shrimp, peeled and deveined, tails removed
¼ cup olive oil
¼ cup chopped parsley
4 cloves garlic, minced
½ teaspoon red pepper flakes
¼ cup butter, melted
¼ cup Panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)
½ cup Parmesan, freshly grated
8 ounces of thin spaghetti, cooked
Hot French bread

Instructions

Preheat oven to 300 degrees.
Place shrimp in a medium-size bowl. Combine next 4 ingredients in a small bowl; pour over shrimp, and toss to coat.
Evenly arrange shrimp in a single layer in a 2-quart baking dish. Cover with foil, and bake 15 minutes.
Remove from oven, turn shrimp over, and drizzle with melted butter. Sprinkle with Panko and Parmesan cheese.
Bake uncovered 10 to 15 more minutes. Broil for 1 to 2 minutes for a browner top, if desired. Serve over pasta family style with French bread.

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Growing up, Valentine’s Day was one of my favorite holidays. And it still is! China: ‘Rothschild Bird’ by Herend, herendusa.com; Sterling silver: ‘Lily’ by Gorham, lifetimesterling.com

For the Kids

Let’s be honest, when you are making sugar cookies all you really want to do is decorate them. Why waste time making them from scratch, letting the dough chill, and prolonging the fun.

The secret is out—Betty Crocker Sugar Cookie Mix. Simply add 1 stick of butter, 1 egg, and 3 tablespoons of flour for cookie-cutter style. It is easy as pie. No sticking to the counter or rolling pin. bettycrocker.com

Three-Ingredient Icing

Powdered sugar

Whole milk

Food coloring

Place powdered sugar in a small bowl or ramekin. Add milk 1 teaspoon at a time until the desired consistency. Go slowly! It does not take much. Use food coloring to make as many colors as you would like. Ice cookies and decorate with sprinkles. Allow to dry completely.

It doesn’t take but a few sprinkles to make these special.

My favorite sprinkles are made especially for Williams-Sonoma by Beautiful Briny Sea, Super Amazing Dessert Sprinkle Mix, $19.95 (15-ounce) jar, Williams-Sonoma, williams-somoma.com

Hopes and Dreams Garland Kit

Another clever idea to entertain the kids, or adults for that matter, is this ribbon garland kit from Stellar, a cute tweens shop, in Rosemary Beach, Florida. I actually brought this to my daughter Sallie as a gift, but couldn’t wait to do it myself!

The kit includes a colorful 5-foot rope and lots of precut ribbon pieces. Stellar, Rosemary Beach, Florida, $25, 850/231-0110, gigistellartweens.com

The “icing on the cookie” is a coffee bar full of miniatures.

Valentine’s Coffee Bar

To top off the evening, set up a coffee bar for the adults. There is no need to buy large bottles of different liquors—pick up an assortment of miniatures and place them in a cute basket. It feels as special as getting the mini jelly from a room service tray. Serve with whipped cream and, of course, the cookies!