If you’re one of those people who “think” they don’t like to entertain but realize it’s probably their turn to pay a few friends back—well, this post is for you.
“Seize the moment.”
Now that fall has officially arrived, this is the easiest time to host. Jump on this opportunity before the holidays, before everyone expects you to pull out ALL the bells and whistles.
A couple weeks ago, Jon and I threw this “party” together in literally just a few hours.
“A few flowers, a big pot of chili, and a stack of grilled cheeses, and suddenly you’re Martha Stewart.”
While the chili is simmering, take a few minutes to set the table and chop the condiments. Place them in serving bowls, cover with plastic wrap, and refrigerate until ready to serve. Round up serving spoons for each bowl, and have them ready to go.
“I’ve never seen people more excited about having Fritos for dinner. It’s the little things in life.”
My favorite chili recipe, Smokin’ Hot Chili,is from Leslie’s Party Diaries on page 92. It’s exactly what you expect chili to taste like. For a milder version, use less cayenne pepper and mild Rotel.
Smokin’ Hot Chili
SERVES 6 TO 8
1½ pounds ground chuck
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 large onion, chopped
2 garlic cloves, minced
2 teaspoons salt
½ teaspoon red pepper
½ teaspoon ground cumin
½ teaspoon dried oregano
2 tablespoons chili powder
2 (10-ounce) cans diced tomatoes and green chiles, undrained
1 (8-ounce) can tomato sauce
1 (16-ounce) can pinto beans, undrained
1 (16-ounce) can red kidney beans, undrained
Toppings: shredded Cheddar cheese, sour cream, chopped red onion, sliced green onions, chopped cilantro, radishes, Fritos corn chips
Saltine crackers
Cook ground beef in hot oil in a Dutch oven over medium-high heat, stirring often, until meat crumbles and is no longer pink. Remove beef from skillet with a slotted spoon to paper towels to drain; reserve 1 tablespoon drippings in Dutch oven.
Add onion and garlic to Dutch oven; cook over medium heat, stirring often, until translucent. Stir in salt and next 8 ingredients; bring to a boil. Reduce heat, and simmer 30 minutes, uncovered; cover and simmer 1½ hours.
Serve with toppings and crackers.
Leslie Likes: Rotel diced tomatoes and green chiles
Children are smarter today than we ever were. For instance, Lily studied abroad last semester in Barcelona and traveled every weekend. She saw the world, literally. For Thanksgiving she picked Morocco for her destination. So Sallie’s first trip overseas was to Casablanca and Marrakesh with her father to visit Lily. I never would have thought of that, or to even ask. I need a college do-over.
On Christmas morning I opened my gifts from the girls. They gave me four authentic Moroccan place mats, a decorative clay bead necklace, and a container of turmeric. So now that I’ve caught you up, welcome to this week’s post, Moroccan Made Easy.
I couldn’t wait to put together a menu to go with all of my treasures. By this time of year I’m craving warmth and sunlight. So I thought a colorful, tasty menu in a festive setting would brighten everyone’s week.
Warm Citrus and Rosemary Olives
Makes 2 cups
1 ½ cups assorted olives, without the pit
¼ cup olive oil
Peel of an orange, about ½-inch thick
2 to 3 fresh rosemary sprigs
Dash of red pepper flakes
In a medium nonstick skillet, warm olives and remaining ingredients. Serve immediately with toothpicks or picks.
Moroccan Lemon Chicken Kabobs
Serves 4 to 6
2 pounds chicken tenders, cut into 1-inch pieces
The Marinade:
¼ cup olive oil
Juice from 2 lemons
3 garlic cloves, chopped
1 teaspoon paprika
½ teaspoon cumin
¼ teaspoon turmeric
¼ teaspoon cayenne
¼ teaspoon salt
¼ teaspoon pepper
Pinch of cinnamon
Lemon slices, halved
Place chicken pieces in a ziplock bag; set aside. Combine remaining ingredients, except lemon slices, in a small bowl; mix well. Pour over chicken, and evenly coat. Place in refrigerator for at least 2 hours and up to 8 hours.
Thread onto 6 skewers, alternating, occasionally, with the lemon slices.
Grill kabobs on medium to medium-high heat for 5 to 10 minutes per side or until thoroughly cooked.
Casablanca Couscous
Serves 6
4 tablespoons butter
1 cup shallots, chopped
3 cups low-sodium chicken broth
1 ½ cups couscous
½ cup golden raisins
½cup Marcona almonds, coarsely chopped, extra for garnish
¼ cup fresh mint, chopped, plus extra for garnish
½ teaspoon salt
½ teaspoon pepper
Melt butter in a medium-size saucepan. Add shallots, and cook until translucent, about 5 minutes. Add chicken broth; bring to a boil. Remove from heat, and add couscous. Cover and allow to sit for 10 minutes. Fluff with a fork. Stir in raisins and next 4 ingredients.
Garnish with extra almonds and mint. Serve immediately.
Cut each pepper and onion into uniform 1-inch square pieces. Place on skewer in order in which they are listed above. Drizzle with olive oil, and sprinkle with salt and pepper.
Grill on medium to medium-high heat until slightly charred and tender.
For an easy dessert, pick up a bag of ginger snaps or a carton of mint-chocolate chip ice cream, or both!
I’m always torn when it comes to going out to dinner on Valentine’s, or staying in and cooking a special meal. I prefer the unabbreviated menu at my favorite restaurants, and some limit your choices that evening.
When making a list of pros and cons, it is an even tie. So, here is a wonderful, yummy option for you and your entire family if you find yourself at home this year.
V is not just for Valentine’s.
Foolproof Baked Shrimp over Pasta
Serves 4 to 6
2 pounds medium shrimp, peeled and deveined, tails removed
¼ cup olive oil
¼ cup chopped parsley
4 cloves garlic, minced
½ teaspoon red pepper flakes
¼ cup butter, melted
¼ cup Panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)
½ cup Parmesan, freshly grated
8 ounces of thin spaghetti, cooked
Hot French bread
Preheat oven to 300 degrees.
Place shrimp in a medium-size bowl. Combine next 4 ingredients in a small bowl; pour over shrimp, and toss to coat.
Evenly arrange shrimp in a single layer in a 2-quart baking dish. Cover with foil, and bake 15 minutes. Remove from oven, turn shrimp over, and drizzle with melted butter. Sprinkle with Panko and Parmesan cheese.
Bake uncovered 10 to 15 more minutes. Broil for 1 to 2 minutes for a browner top, if desired. Serve over pasta family style with French bread.
Learn from Leslie: Be sure to have lots of hot, crusty French bread. The dipping in the butter and juices is the best part! Serve with a simple green vegetable or salad.
Let’s be honest, when you are making sugar cookies all you really want to do is decorate them. Why waste time making them from scratch, letting the dough chill, and prolonging the fun.
Three-Ingredient Icing
Powdered sugar
Whole milk
Food coloring
Place powdered sugar in a small bowl or ramekin. Add milk 1 teaspoon at a time until the desired consistency. Go slowly! It does not take much. Use food coloring to make as many colors as you would like. Ice cookies and decorate with sprinkles. Allow to dry completely.
Hopes and Dreams Garland Kit
Another clever idea to entertain the kids, or adults for that matter, is this ribbon garland kit from Stellar, a cute tweens shop, in Rosemary Beach, Florida. I actually brought this to my daughter Sallie as a gift, but couldn’t wait to do it myself!
Valentine’s Coffee Bar
To top off the evening, set up a coffee bar for the adults. There is no need to buy large bottles of different liquors—pick up an assortment of miniatures and place them in a cute basket. It feels as special as getting the mini jelly from a room service tray. Serve with whipped cream and, of course, the cookies!
The number of guests you invite is based on the number of comfortable seatsyou have in view of a decent-size TV. (Everyone expects at least 40 inches at the bare minimum, so don’t host if you have less than that.)
Step 2.
This is not a sit-down dinner party. It’s the perfect chance to pull out your slow cooker or Dutch ovenand get something simmering. Since the halftime show is the best part, you can’t count on that time to serve dinner. So, it’s best to have something that is self-serve and can be eaten anytime.
Black Bean Gumbo with Turkey Sausage
served over Simple Saffron Rice
Serves 12 to 14 (Makes 4 1/2 quarts)
1 tablespoon olive oil
2 (10-ounce) packages of turkey smoked sausage, sliced
2 medium onions, chopped
3 celery ribs, chopped
3 carrots, peeled and chopped, reserving 1 for garnish
1 red pepper, diced
1 yellow pepper, diced
2 bunches green onions, chopped reserving 1 for garnish
1 jalapeño, chopped, removing seeds
4 cloves garlic
2 (32-ounce) cartons chicken broth, unsalted
1 pound dried black beans, soaked overnight, rinsed and drained, or 4 (14-ounce) cans, rinsed thoroughly
1 bay leaf
2 tablespoons ground cumin
1 tablespoon dried oregano
1 ½ teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon black pepper
1 tablespoon brown sugar
Juice of 1 lime
Basmati rice (cooked according to directions)
Saffron threads
Corn tortillas
Chili powder
In a large Dutch oven, heat olive oil to medium-high; brown sausage on both sides. Remove to a plate. Set aside.
In the drippings, add next 8 ingredients. Cook until tender. Add broth, beans, and next 7 ingredients. Bring to a boil, reduce to simmer for 1 ½ hours for dried beans or until beans are tender and 30 to 40 minutes for canned beans. Both delicious!
Serve with saffron-laced, cooked rice and tortilla strips sprinkled with chili powder.
Learn from Leslie: For the crunchy topping, cut the corn tortillas into strips and cook in oil on medium-high in a skillet until golden brown (about 3 to 4 minutes). Drain on paper towels. Sprinkle with salt and chili powder.
Two of my other favorites to have simmering on the stove for a crowd are Smokin’ Hot Chili(page 92) and Weeknight Gumbo (page 90), both from Leslie’s Party Diaries.lesliespartydiaries.com
Step 3.
Stock up on paper products now—it’s that kind of party. Take advantage of this. No one will notice or care that you are not using china, and cleanup will be a breeze.
Step 4.
Make it interesting. YES, that means gambling! Remind each guest to bring cold, hard cash(go by the bank and get change just in case too). Make a poster with squares for each guest to purchase blocks. (See below how to set it up.) A drawing will be done at the end of each quarter. To keep everyone interested, dole out the cash after each drawing.
Step 5.
Greet your guests with a welcome beverage. Then have a cooler full of beer with huggers and bottle openers in close proximity.
Bourbon Slushie
Makes about 4 ½ quarts
4 cups boiling water
3 regular-size tea bags
2 cups bourbon
1 cup sugar
1 (6-ounce) can orange juice concentrate
1 (6-ounce) can lemonade concentrate
6 cups water
Pour boiling water into a gallon container; add tea bags and allow to steep for 30 minutes. Remove tea bags, and discard. Add bourbon and sugar, stirring until sugar is dissolved. Add remaining 3 ingredients. Stir until thoroughly combined. Freeze in two, 1-gallon ziplock bags. Before serving, remove from freezer for 15 to 20 minutes.
Learn from Leslie: I use half of the (12-ounce) orange juice and lemonade concentrates for this recipe. The (6-ounce) size is hard to find. For that reason alone, this recipe can easily be doubled for a large crowd.
Delegate. Delegate. Delegate. Don’t turn down a single offer for a dip or dessert. You are making the main course and cleaning your house. Make it easy on yourself. It’s a Sunday night!
For those of you who didn’t see my Old Schoolpost a couple weeks ago, I took a basic cream sauce recipe and used it in three recipes. Here it is again. And who would have thought, queso!
Quick Homemade Queso
Makes about 4 ½ cups
1 tablespoon unsalted butter
1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1 cup whole milk
1 ½ cups Monterey Jack cheese, grated
1 ½ cups Chihuahua cheese, grated
¼ cup Parmesan cheese
Salt and pepper to taste
Garnish with sliced jalapeños and sweet mini peppers, optional
Tortilla chips
In a small saucepan, melt butter. Add flour and whisk until combined, about 1 minute. Gradually add milk, and stir until it begins to thicken, about 5 to 7 minutes. Add cheeses, and salt and pepper to taste. Thin with milk if it gets too thick. Garnish if desired. Serve warm with tortilla chips.
Learn from Leslie:Monterey Jack cheese can be substituted if you cannot find Chihuahua cheese.
Step 7.
Spread out the dips. (Non-messy, near the upholstery, and drippy ones, in the kitchen.) Pass dessert bitesat the beginning of the 4th quarter, it will be an activity. The cookies can also be packaged and used as party favors by the front door.
Double Chocolate-Macadamia Nut Cookies
Makes about 28 (2-inch) cookies
½ cup butter, softened
½ cup shortening
½ cup sugar
1 cup brown sugar
1 egg
2 teaspoons vanilla
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon salt
1 (4-ounce) white chocolate baking bar, chopped into chunks
1 (4-ounce) semi-sweet chocolate baking bar, chopped into chunks
Beat butter and shortening at medium speed with an electric mixer until creamy; gradually add sugars, beating well. Add egg and vanilla; beat well.
In a separate bowl, combine flour, soda, and salt; gradually add to butter mixture, beating well. Stir in chocolates and nuts.
Form dough into 1-inch balls onto a parchment-lined baking sheet about 2 inches apart. Gently press to flatten slightly. Bake for 10 to 12 minutes. Cool slightly before removing them to wire rack to cool completely.
Step 8.
Set up extra TVs around your house if you have any not in use, like a screened porch, deck (weather permitting), bar, etc.
Step 9.
Refrain from playing music. This is the one party where I leave that off—everyone wants to hear the commercials.
Step 10.
Pull out the Barber’s Party Dip with Wavy Lays, because it wouldn’t be the same without it! A match made in Heaven.
Nothing says party more than a chilled bottle of Champagne. During football season, Thanksgiving weekend, or anytime during the holidays, take time to set up an attractive mimosa bar. Start with a decorative tray and a variety of fresh juices, such as orange, pineapple, and cranberry, and of course, ice-cold Champagne. For those less festive folks, throw out a bottle of vodka.
A quick and easy appetizer to serve with a mimosa bar is Parmesan-Parsley Popcorn—which falls into my Emergency Appetizer recipe category. I always have these ingredients on hand. I love to serve such a simple nibble in an interesting container. It changes everything.
Even though I’ve never smoked a cigarette in my life, I am somehow obsessed with vintage ashtrays. Certain things jump out at you and there is no explanation—other than there is a sense of nostalgia to them. I feel they will soon be extinct.
A large vintage ashtray is the ideal size and shape for a snack like this popcorn, and it’s always good to do something unexpected. The best compliment you can get after a party is for one of your guests to tell a friend what you did. Give them something to talk about.
Somewhere near the ashtrays at most flea markets are the vintage ice trays—soon to be extinct too, thanks to modern-day ice machines. Look for an interesting ice tray shape, like this honeycomb-shaped one, to make a specialty cube to add to the bar. Pineapple juice freezes beautifully, and a cube of it will add a fresh taste to many of your concoctions without watering it down. Cranberry is a good choice too.
When time allows, order funny, printed cocktail napkins or interesting, custom cocktail stirrers.
Take advantage of fresh fruits and use them as a container for your garnishes, as I did here with the fresh pineapple. I simply cut a fresh pineapple in half, hollowed out the fruit from one side, and reserved the rest for garnish. You now have a beautiful bowl—that doesn’t need washing at the end of the night.
If hosting a special occasion with an honored guest, save one of the Champagne corks, place it in a mini glass shadow box, and let it be his or her party favor to remember the event. It will make the perfect keepsake. I buy these by the dozen—they come in handy for wine corks too. Thanks, Elizabeth, for sharing this idea with me years ago. (I have one sitting on my coffee table now that she gave me from our wedding.) It’s a thoughtful, easy gift. Your guests will be impressed.