It’s a Lifestyle, Not a Diet

I’ve learned a lot in the past eight weeks, thanks to Scarlet Kanaday, a wellness nutritionist at St. Vincent’s Hospital. Being fairly thin all my life (until my 50s), I never dreamed I would EVER put on unwanted pounds. Well, I was wrong. The day after my 50th birthday, it all started.

For the last four years I’ve tried personal trainers, My Fitness Pal, starving myself, well, just about everything, and nothing worked. But after meeting Scarlet I realized I was going about it all wrong!

Scarlet planned a diet geared toward my body type and medications. It gave me peace of mind knowing that she had all of my blood work and other test results from my annual checkup to refer to also. I was in good hands, plus I adore her AND she loves to cook!

Meet Scarlet
Health and Wellness Director at Birmingham Obstetrics and Gynecology, Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, hlweightloss@birminghamobgyn.com, 205/271-5650

Without giving away all of Scarlet’s secrets, I will share that there is a magic formula to weight loss: You need to fuel your body with the correct foods, and that includes healthy fats too! And, the best part about dieting with Scarlet was I was NEVER hungry. In fact, I’ve never been able to eat so much!

Scarlet’s Top 5 Healthy Fats

  • Avocado
  • Olives
  • Olive oil
  • Half & Half or Heavy Cream
  • Butter
  • BONUS FAT: Bacon

Scarlet also gave me recipes to try and a lot of flavorful ideas to help me enjoy cooking and dieting at the same time.

Most people may think that cooking and dieting don’t go hand in hand, but there are plenty of recipes that not only taste delicious but keep you on your diet track.

I found this recipe online at Chelsea’s Messy Apron blog. I made a few slight changes, but the recipe is adapted from hers. Be sure to check out her blog, too; it’s full of yummy-looking recipes that I can’t wait to try.

Jon says this recipe is one of the best meals I’ve ever made.

Now, let’s start cooking this Scarlet-approved recipe! I’ve made it three times in the last month. I took her advice last night and served it with cauliflower rice. It was delicious. The flavorful sauce “hid” that it wasn’t regular rice. (This photo was taken before with Basmati rice.)

This foolproof recipe can be made ahead and reheated, frozen, or prepared in the moment. I can’t wait to serve this unexpected dish at my next football gathering!

Coconut Chicken Curry

Serves 4

3 tablespoons coconut oil, separated

½ medium yellow onion, diced

3 cloves minced garlic

2 tablespoons finely minced ginger

2 teaspoons yellow curry powder

3 tablespoons red curry paste

2 teaspoons ground coriander

½ large red bell pepper

½ large green bell pepper

1 ½ pounds chicken breast tenders, cut into 1-inch pieces

Kosher salt and freshly cracked pepper

1 can full fat coconut milk (NOT lite)

1 tablespoon lime juice

1 to 2 tablespoons brown sugar or Splenda Brown Sugar Blend*

1 teaspoon fish sauce, optional

¼ cup cilantro and/or basil, diced

Cooked basmati rice, brown rice, or cauliflower rice along with additional lime wedges

Optional: chopped peanuts or cashews

*If using Splenda Brown Sugar Blend (which I did), cut the amount by half.

Start by prepping ingredients: Dice onion, and mince the garlic and ginger. Peel the ginger with a spoon or vegetable peeler, and then finely mince it. Thinly slice the bell peppers into long vertical strips, and then cut those strips in half horizontally. 

Heat 2 tablespoons coconut oil in a large deep skillet over medium-high heat. Add the onion, and sauté for 3 to 5 minutes or until the onions are beginning to get golden. Add the garlic and ginger. Stir to coat everything with the oil. Lower the heat to low, and add the curry powder, red curry paste, and coriander. Stir often for 2 to 3 minutes or until lightly toasted and fragrant. 

Return the heat to medium-high. Add the remaining 1 tablespoon coconut oil and the peppers. Stir for 1 to 2 minutes, and then add the bite-size pieces of chicken. Add salt and pepper to taste. (I add 1 teaspoon salt and ½ teaspoon pepper.) Cook, stirring often for about 4 to 5 minutes or until the chicken is browned on both sides, but not cooked through.

Pour in the coconut milk, lime juice, and brown sugar to taste (I start with just 1 tablespoon.) Stir until chicken is cooked through and curry is slightly thickened. Stir in fish sauce if desired. 

Serve over rice. Garnish individual bowls with cilantro, basil, and crushed peanuts or cashews. Serve with additional lime wedges if desired.

Learn from Leslie: For a thicker sauce, remove 1 to 2 tablespoons of the sauce to a small bowl and, with a fork, whisk in 1 tablespoon cornstarch until smooth. Whisk this mixture into the curry. 


I like to use my ice-cream scoop to premeasure rice servings. It makes a pretty presentation too.
Garnish with chopped peanuts or cashews. To quickly crush, place nuts in a ziplock bag and crush away with a heavy object!

My 10 Diet Saviors

1. Tuna salad on heirloom tomatoes

2. Cashew nuts

3. Applewood Smoked Bacon

4. Grilled Pork Chop and any green vegetable

5. Penzey’s Taco Seasoning

6. Kabobs

7. Coleslaw with everything

8. Condiments such as real mayo, half-n-half, and aged Balsamic vinegar

9. Hershey Dark Chocolate Kisses

10. Tequila Soda with a lime

Fabulous Finds

While dining in Dallas last May, I ran across these adorable chopstick rests. Everyone had one at their place. I was so excited when I found out they could be purchased! All proceeds benefit the animal shelter in Carrollton, Texas, Operation Kindness. $3 each plus tax, Shinsei, shinseirestaurant.com, 214/352-0005
For the cat lovers…
And dog lovers too.
I’m obsessed with miniature anything! When I ran across this set of Dim Sum steamers at Whole Foods the other day, I had to purchase them. They make a unique side dish container to go with anything. I can’t wait to steam a cupcake in one, and give as a party favor at my next gathering! They would also make a special place card. The possibilities are endless. Available at Whole Foods, $13.99 for a set of two, wholefoods.com
If you are looking for an assortment of tabletop items at a very reasonable price, check out the clearance sales at Zarahome.com. You’ll be surprised what you can find for next to nothing. zarahome.com
A wonderful-tasting diet substitute for brown sugar. Give it a try in baking, on oatmeal, or on a sweet potato. Available at most grocery stores, $4.99 per 1 pound bag, Splenda.com
Another low-calorie tasty bite to add to your nibble tray are these Chili Garlic Coated Sriracha Peas. Available at World Market, worldmarket.com

Last but not least, a festive party idea…

At my next party, I’m going to set up a garnish station like this one I recently saw at the Baccarat Hotel in New York City. It’s guaranteed to impress your guests and take every cocktail over the top.

And, before I sign off…

Here’s a quick wrap-up of what I have learned in the last few weeks while dieting with Scarlet. You CAN make good choices at home or eating out, and traveling, so don’t let that stop you from doing anything you want to do. I managed to lose 12 pounds and several inches eating out 3 to 4 times a week with cocktails (not per Scarlet’s advice). Just be very good at all the other meals—and exercise.

Keeping a food journal may sound tedious, but it quickly becomes part of your daily routine.

Having a wellness instructor like Scarlet or a coach to hold you accountable really helps get the job done. I quickly learned it’s not calorie for calorie. Food is a science. I’m eating a lot more than I was and still losing weight, I start my day with half-and-half in my coffee instead of skim milk. That’s reason enough alone!

Documenting even the “slip-ups,” as Scarlet calls them, will keep them at a minimum and make you really think twice.

So here’s to fall, jean weather, comforting foods, football, and all the rest that goes along with this fabulous time of year.

Enjoy life—that’s what it’s all about. See you next time. Leslie xoxox

Super Crunch Coconut Shrimp

I have to admit, I’m a seafood snob. When I decide to cook any seafood, I go to the most reputable seafood market in town. I don’t cook it that often, but when I do I want it to be as fresh as possible. And it is usually about the same price as what you can find at the grocery store.

“I don’t mess around when it comes to purchasing seafood—a business that relies solely on it to survive is your best bet.”

Seafood markets have a quick turnover and take great care at preserving their fresh catches.

For this impressive recipe, you will need the large size shrimp, 16 to 20 count per pound. The tails remain attached for easy dipping. It takes only a few minutes to devein and butterfly this larger size shrimp. If you can find this size deveined with tail in tact, all the better, but it really is quick for this amount.

Look how pretty these babies are!

“Don’t be afraid to fry.”

This recipe easily can be adjusted for any size crowd. Allow for two per person (at least) for an appetizer portion.

“I’d rather have 2 to 3 fried ones than 6 baked!”

I’ve never felt more like an accomplished, professional fryer until I made this recipe. It worked. I know frying can be intimidating to attempt when you have a house full of guests, or when trying it for the first time, but trust me, once the shrimp are breaded, it takes only about 5 minutes to fry the entire batch!

This is my first attempt EVER at frying coconut shrimp. This is SO easy. (I”m a paper towel snob too.) Paper towels by Bounty, bounty.com

I can’t think of a more delicious appetizer or main course—that’s relatively inexpensive. The dipping sauce is two ingredients. Yes, I said two!

“I can’t do a cheese plate for under 50 bucks!”

Take this to your next gathering, or cook it whenever you are hosting. They will be gobbled up, I promise. So let’s get started!

“I love a recipe with the WOW factor.”

Super Crunch Coconut Shrimp

Makes 16 to 20 shrimp

 

1 pound large shrimp, 16 to 20 count, peeled and deveined, tails attached

½ cup all-purpose flour

½ teaspoon salt

½ teaspoon black pepper

2 eggs

1 cup sweetened coconut

¾ cup Panko breadcrumbs

½ cup orange marmalade

¼ cup Thai chili sauce

3 to 4 cups vegetable oil

Lime wedges, optional

 

With a paring knife, butterfly the peeled shrimp. (Learn from Leslie: This is basically making a deeper cut, without going completely through the shrimp, during the deveining process. This flattens them out, or to be more technical, it’s called butterflying. This allows more surface for the breading to stick.)

Combine flour, salt, and pepper in a shallow bowl. Combine well; set aside.

In a small bowl, whisk eggs with a fork or a whisk, beating well; set aside.

In a food processor, pulse the coconut several times to make the pieces smaller. (I use my mini-chopper for this.) Combine the pulsed coconut with the Panko in a third bowl. Now you are ready to start the breading process.

Set up your dipping station. I like to keep one hand dry and one hand wet! You’ll see what I mean once you start dredging.

In a shallow dish you will be able to do two or three at one time. Be sure to coat the shrimp completly in the flour mixture, shaking off any excess.

Dip prepared shrimp into flour mixture, then eggs, allowing any excess to drip off before dipping it into coconut mixture. Place on a baking sheet lined with parchment or wax paper. Repeat with remaining shrimp.

You now can easily see how the shrimp are supposed to look after they have been butterflied and breaded.

Combine marmalade and chili sauce in a small bowl for dipping.

“There is no need for ‘designer’ jelly. Any kind will do. I actually found the marmalade on special at the Piggly Wiggly for $1.95.”

Now here comes the fun! In a large cast-iron or heavy skillet, fill oil to about 1/2-inch depth. Heat to medium-high heat. (I test with a flake of coconut—if it “sizzles” with gusto (you are ready to start frying).

It goes really fast, so be ready once you start. It should take only about a minute per batch.

Fry 4 to 5 at a time, for about 1 minute, turning once. Remove shrimp and place on a paper towel to drain. Sprinkle with kosher salt. Repeat until all shrimp are cooked. Serve with dipping sauce. Garnish with lime wedges if desired.

Serve on vintage comic book pages for an extra “BANG.” They are easy to find. I actually saw some at my FedEx location the other day. But you can for sure find them at most flea markets or second-hand stores. I love the colors and age on the pages. They would also look cute in a basket with hotdogs or chicken fingers for a kids party. Note to self.

Drum roll…

Now here’s the good news. After you have fried the shrimp you can refrigerate them for several hours or up to 12 hours, and then simply reheat on a baking sheet at 350 degrees for 10 minutes. No one will even notice that they are not hot out of the oil. (I tested it and was amazingly surprised!)

So the frying and cleanup can be done before your guests arrive if you prefer. Either way you will be the appetizer super hero!    

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Ingredients

  • 1 pound large shrimp, 16 to 20 count, peeled and deveined, tails attached
  • ½ cup all-purpose flour
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon black pepper
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 cup sweetened coconut
  • ¾ cup Panko breadcrumbs
  • ½ cup orange marmalade
  • ¼ cup Thai chili sauce
  • 3 to 4 cups vegetable oil
  • Lime wedges, optional

Instructions

  1. With a paring knife, butterfly the peeled shrimp. (Learn from Leslie: This is basically making a deeper cut, without going completely through the shrimp, during the deveining process. This flattens them out, or to be more technical, it's called butterflying. This allows more surface for the breading to stick.)
  2. Combine flour, salt, and pepper in a shallow bowl. Combine well; set aside.
  3. In a small bowl, whisk eggs with a fork or a whisk, beating well; set aside.
  4. In a food processor, pulse the coconut several times to make the pieces smaller. (I use my mini-chopper for this.) Combine the pulsed coconut with the Panko in a third bowl. Now you are ready to start the breading process.
  5. Dip prepared shrimp into flour mixture, then eggs, allowing any excess to drip off before dipping it into coconut mixture. Place on a baking sheet lined with parchment or wax paper. Repeat with remaining shrimp.
  6. Combine marmalade and chili sauce in a small bowl for dipping.
  7. Now here comes the fun! In a large cast-iron or heavy skillet, fill oil to about 1/2-inch depth. Heat to medium-high heat. (I test with a flake of coconut—if it "sizzles" with gusto (you are ready to start frying).
  8. Fry 4 to 5 at a time, for about 1 minute, turning once. Remove shrimp and place on a paper towel to drain. Sprinkle with kosher salt. Repeat until all shrimp are cooked. Serve with dipping sauce. Garnish with lime wedges if desired.
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And if you are wondering, the chopsticks are not really needed. It’s the prop stylist in me coming out. I loved the color and graphic element they added to the photo. If you do remove the tails though, you might need a cute colorful pair or two!

It’s not too early to preorder for the holidays. I don’t have many books left, but I am happy to pre sell and ship when specified. Contact me for more details.

 

 

 

Salmon in a Bag

I gave up on the cute designer lunchboxes for my girls a long time ago. After two or three packed lunches, they would “forget it” and thirty dollars later we were back to the value pack of brown lunch-size paper bags. So I guess you can say—we are brown baggers. I always have them in the pantry.

I first saw the whole “Chicken in the Bag” idea in a Sara Foster cookbook, and it fascinated me. I had the fire extinguisher on the kitchen counter ready to go the first time I tried it. But, a brown paper bag in a 400-degree oven doesn’t catch on fire—trust me.

I usually like to cook my salmon on the grill to avoid smelling up the house, but on one of those nights when it was almost too hot to grill, I decided to give this method a try. Surprisingly enough, the paper bag helped contain the fishy odor that usually happens when cooking in a skillet or baking dish. Another reason to give this recipe a try.

Combine the olive oil (or if you prefer, softened butter) with honey, soy sauce, and chopped garlic in a small bowl.

Honeyed Salmon

Serves 2

1 tablespoon olive oil or softened butter

1 tablespoon honey

1 teaspoon soy sauce (I use lite soy)

1 to 2 cloves of chopped garlic

Zest of 1 lime

Pinch of salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes

1 lemon sliced

2 limes, divided (1 for zest and 1 sliced)

2 lunch-size brown paper bags

2 (6- to 8-ounce) salmon fillets

Kitchen twine

Garnish: cilantro sprig

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Combine first 6 ingredients in a small bowl; set aside.

Slice lemon and lime into thin 1/8-inch slices; place 3 slices, overlapping each, inside each bag to make a little “bed” for the salmon fillet.

Place salmon fillets on a plate, and generously spoon olive oil mixture on top of each one.

Place the salmon fillets on a plate before applying the marinade. It will make for less cleanup.

Carefully slide salmon into the paper bag; top with 3 more lemon and lime slices and a sprig of cilantro. Repeat steps with the other fillet.

Doesn’t it look nice and cozy?

Gather the open end of each bag, and tie securely with kitchen twine. Place on a baking sheet. Bake for 40 minutes.

Tie bags with kitchen twine as shown, and place on a baking sheet.

Tear open the bag and serve. Note: I replaced “baked” cilantro sprig with fresh one before serving.

Learn from Leslie: Skinless, bone-in chicken breasts will also work with this cooking process. Drizzle each chicken breast with olive oil, add 1 teaspoon of chopped rosemary, sage, or thyme, and sprinkle with salt and pepper; place on three lemon slices inside the bag. Tie the bag with kitchen twine. Increase the cooking time to 50 to 55 minutes, depending on the size of the breasts.

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Ingredients

  • 1 tablespoon olive oil or softened butter
  • 1 tablespoon honey
  • 1 teaspoon soy sauce (I use lite soy)
  • 1 to 2 cloves of chopped garlic
  • Zest of 1 lime
  • Pinch of salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes
  • 1 lemon sliced
  • 2 limes, divided (1 for zest and 1 sliced)
  • 2 lunch-size brown paper bags
  • 2 (6- to 8-ounce) salmon fillets
  • Kitchen twine
  • Garnish: cilantro sprig

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.
  2. Combine first 6 ingredients in a small bowl; set aside.
  3. Slice lemon and lime into thin 1/8-inch slices; place 3 slices, overlapping each, inside each bag to make a little “bed” for the salmon fillet.
  4. Place salmon fillets on a plate, and generously spoon olive oil mixture on top of each one.
  5. Carefully slide salmon into the paper bag; top with 3 more lemon and lime slices and a sprig of cilantro. Repeat steps with the other fillet.
  6. Gather the open end of each bag, and tie securely with kitchen twine. Place on a baking sheet. Bake for 40 minutes.
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Reasonable Rosé

Not to brag, but I believe I was ahead of my time on the Rosé craze. I’ve been drinking it almost exclusively for several years now, and I have a list of my favorites that are all reasonable in price and have a delicious taste.

I prefer my Rosé chilled. Napkins from House of Harris at houseofharris.com.

I ask for a glass at a restaurant by describing it as “the lightest one you have in color,” not to sound like a wine snob—it usually gets the point across. So, I thought I would share a few of my go-to brands. Prices may vary from store to store.

I prefer a screw top for ease and storage, especially for travel. Don’t be tempted by the taller, ornate bottles. They are not worth having to rearrange the shelves in your refrigerator. And, the ones with glass stoppers do not do well on their side after opening.

Triennes, $14.99, Gérard Bertrand GRIS BLANC, $14.99, and Angels and Cowboys, $14.99. All of these have the handy screw top.

For special occasions I like Whispering Angel and Miraval. These unfortunately are not screw top, but they are both worth the extra effort.

Miraval, $22.99, and Whispering Angel, $23.99

A few years ago, I saved several of the Miraval bottles, removed the labels, and used them as vases. I photographed them for my book in my quick centerpiece section.

Repurposed Miraval bottles filled with colored water and gerber daisies make a quick centerpiece on a buffet or mantel.

I’d like to end this post with a list I’ve made of suggestions to do before Thanksgiving weekend. It will make your holidays much more enjoyable.

You’ll be sitting by the fire relaxing if you knock out this list before Thanksgiving weekend.

10 Things To Do Before Thanksgiving

  1. Make cornbread for dressing, crumble, and freeze. See Leslie’s Tried-and-True Cornbread, Leslie’s Party Diaries, page 179. (To buy book: lesliespartydiaries.com or dearpartydiary.com $39 plus tax/shipping)
  2. Order Christmas cards, address, stamp, and have ready to mail. Beat the rush! It’s nice not to have them hanging over your head. You will have more time to relax and enjoy the holiday season.
  3. Get your holiday party date nailed down and on the calendar. Call it and start planning!
  4. Purchase containers and packaging for all friends’ and neighbors’ food gifts, before they are picked over. Have them washed and ready to go.
  5. Stock up on extra Christmas lights and votives, just in case!
  6. Thoroughly clean out your refrigerator and freezer. “Declutter” your laundry room and pantry. You’ll be glad these are done—trust me.
  7. Make a couple of fun dinner reservations. (See #8)
  8. Buy a couple of festive holiday tops or outfits. (See #7)
  9. Purchase giftwrap, ribbon, boxes, tissue, and gift tags so you can WRAP AS YOU GO. You’ll be thanking me on this one.
  10. Lose 2 to 3 pounds.